
29/06/2025
đź’› Embracing the Reality of Dementia: Wisdom from Our Team đź’›
At Best Life, we walk alongside people living with dementia every day. We see the beauty, the heartbreak, the humour, and the small, sacred moments that often go unseen.
Dementia changes how someone experiences the world but it doesn’t take away their worth, their need for love, or the possibility of joy.
We want to raise awareness in our community. We’ve learned a lot from our incredible clients and their families. Here are 10 heartfelt tips from our team, gathered through years of lived experience caring for people with dementia:
1. Meet them where they are not where you wish they were.
Trying to correct or “bring them back” can cause distress. Go with them into their world. Connection matters more than correctness.
2. Routine is everything.
Familiarity creates safety. Small rituals a morning cup of tea, the same seat by the window help ease anxiety.
3. Feelings outlast facts.
Even if they forget your words, they’ll remember how you made them feel. Speak with kindness. Smile often.
4. Join the journey, don’t lead it.
Let them set the pace. Sometimes silence, music, or a gentle touch says more than words ever could.
5. Use their name and yours.
It builds recognition and comfort. “Hi Margaret, it’s me, Jenny. I’m so glad to see you.”
6. Don’t take it personally.
Dementia can speak sharply. What sounds like anger is often fear, confusion, or pain. Stay grounded. Take a breath.
7. Find joy in the little things.
A favourite song. A walk in the garden. Folding towels together. These simple moments are big wins.
8. Give choices where possible.
“Would you like the red jumper or the blue one?” Autonomy, even in small decisions, brings dignity.
9. Celebrate who they are today.
Not who they were or who they might have been. There is still life, love, and laughter here and now.
10. You are allowed to feel.
Caring is hard. It’s okay to grieve, to get frustrated, to cry. Ask for help. You’re not alone.
We see you. We honour the love you give and the strength it takes to keep showing up. đź’›
If you’re caring for someone with dementia and need a hand, or just someone to talk to — we’re here.
With heart,
The Best Life Team