10/09/2025
The way we talk about food matters just as much as the food itself. Many clients worry their relationship with food affects their children.
Children absorb so much from the language we use around food and bodies… even the little throwaway comments we make to ourselves.
If you wouldn’t want your child saying it, why say it to yourself? Offering yourself kindness sets the tone for them, too.
Shifting towards food neutrality takes away shame and judgement, while still leaving space for good nutrition. Instead of “I was bad for eating dessert,” try: “I noticed what my body wanted today.”
Simple swaps to try:
👉 Focus on how food feels, not guilt or virtue.
👉 Avoid using food as a bribe or punishment.
👉 Model curiosity: “I’m learning to notice when I feel full.”
👉 Celebrate function, not appearance: “Your body is strong!”