14/02/2025
“Happy Valentines Day”
whilst you celebrate with your beloved, your husband your wife, boyfriend or girlfriend and offer tokens of appreciation and love have you ever thought:
why do we only do this one day a year surely every day is special when were together ?
The truth for many is its not, we often get lost in the power struggle bickering like kindergarten kids over unimportant issues,
prioritise the kids, work, fitness, extended family over connection and joyful times together its no wonder we’re left feeling… is this it .
or maybe your pretty happy with how things are , though feel it would be even better if.
welcome to the reality of the unconscious relationship. Plagued by the powerstruggles, by poor communication , effected by avoidance and hidden resentments that neither of you dare to discuss its no wonder you are where you are.
In reality your relationship is not special in this regard, most relationships arrive here sooner or later
why? Because no body teaches us how to do things differently, we were not taught how to communicate safely with empathy and respect, or to actually listen and remain curious whilst parking our reactivity and maintaining connection.
We just keep going round and round using the same patterns that seem to create even more ruptures and disconnection until we learn to do things differently.
Make that day today as part of your valentine celebrations, why don’t you commit to transform your relationship into one that celebrates appreciation and love each and every day not just on February 14th?
Learn to get conscious in your relationship through communication techniques that work transforming your marriage into a conscious couplehood beyond your wildest dreams .
Join the many successful couples who have successfully learnt and applied the secrets of this
fundamental framework to build a successful relationship that is safe, trustful , nourishing, respectful ,caring , loving, sexually fulfilling, joyful and alive.
I look forward to hearing from you .
Matthew
Conscious couples therapy Bristol
www.consciouscouplestherapy.com
