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Helping people to unlock their subconscious mind to make positive change.
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12/03/2026

Mum guilt isn’t actually the problem.

It’s your nervous system thinking that taking time for yourself is unsafe.

When you spend years putting everyone else first, your body gets use to it.

So when you finally try and take a moment for you, even something small like a bath, a walk or sitting with a coffee… it doesn’t feel relaxing.

Your brain starts listing everything else you should be doing.

That’s not because you’re doing self-care wrong.
It’s becuase your nervous system hasn’t learned that it’s safe for fly to receive those moments yet.

That’s exactly what I help mums work through.

Not by forcing ‘me time’
But by gently retaining your nervous system so you can actually enjoy it.

If you’re a mum who feels constantly overwhelmed, burntout or guilty for resting. Send me the word ‘RESET’ and let’s start changing this

06/03/2026

Don’t get me wrong, lists can sometimes be exactly what we need.

But have you ever considered that your list might actually be keeping you in a stress cycle?

Writing things down can give temporary relief. For a moment it feels like you’re back in control.

But once it’s on paper, the mind often reads the list as urgent.
Item after item becomes another signal that something still needs your attention.

Instead of simply knowing what needs doing this week, the mind shifts to: I need to complete the list.

And when the boxes aren’t ticked, self-doubt can creep in…

Why can’t I keep up?
Why am I falling behind?

So we have our list to think about while then deciding we aren’t good enough

Sometimes what we really need isn’t another list.

We need to learn how to step out of the pressure cycle and allow the mind to reset.

If you are feeling stuck in the pressure cycle DM or comment the word ‘stuck’ and let’s work together 🤝

23/02/2026

That split second of panic when someone says, “Is that your child?” 😅

Not because we doubt our kids but because we’ve been taught to expect judgment.

When you grow up constantly told how to behave, you learn to brace for criticism before it even arrives.

But our fear of judgment doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with them.

Maybe it means it’s time to let go of the judgment and self-doubt we were taught to carry, so our children don’t have to carry it too 🧑‍🧒‍🧒⛓️‍💥🥰

18/02/2026

Visualisation can be such a powerful tool 🪄

Your mind doesn’t clearly distinguish between vividly imagined experiences and real ones. Sounds crazy right?

Procrastination isn’t laziness, it’s your subconscious perceiving a task as a threat and trying to protect you.

When you intentionally visualize the event going smoothly and successfully, you send your nervous system a new signal: this is safe.

That mental rehearsal can reduce resistance, calm anxiety, and make taking action feel natural instead of forced.

12/02/2026

You might feel like you’re screaming out for change, but nothing is changing.
And that stuck feeling isn’t because you’re not trying hard enough.
It isn’t about effort, commitment, discipline, or time.

For many people, their subconscious learned early on that staying hyper-aware, guarded, or emotionally contained was the best way to avoid pain, disappointment, or chaos.

So even when you want change, part of your mind is quietly resisting it - not to sabotage you, but to protect you.

Your subconscious doesn’t respond to logic or willpower alone.
It responds to patterns, emotional memory, and safety cues.

So when you try to change with only conscious effort, but your subconscious still believes that letting go is unsafe, you end up feeling stuck, frustrated, or exhausted — like you’re pushing against an invisible wall.

You don’t need more willpower.
You don’t need to try harder.
You don’t need to be more disciplined.
What you need is to feel safe enough, at a subconscious level, to release control and that’s where true, lasting change begins.

10/02/2026

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09/02/2026

Anxiety is your body’s way of trying to protect you.
At some point, your nervous system learned that staying alert, cautious, or worried was the safest option, so it created a survival loop.

The problem isn’t that you’re anxious.
The problem is that the loop is outdated.

The mind is adaptable.
If it can learn fear, it can also learn regulation, trust, and calm.
When your nervous system no longer feels threatened, your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors naturally begin to change.

You don’t need to fight your anxiety - you need to teach your brain that you are safe.

Break the loop.
Heal the pattern.
Respond from a place of safety, not survival. ❤️‍🩹

05/02/2026

Just a few Hills I will die on 🙌🏼⛰️

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The Old Coach House, 8 Green Lane
Chester
CH14EN

Website

https://www.ph-hypnotherapy.co.uk/

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