02/01/2026
What do you think about dark humor as a coping skill?😂
Knowing your doing your best but one tantrum away from feeling like you failed 🥹
“Feral kids” jokes aren’t about failure.
It’s often your nervous system remembering what it learned about doing things ‘right’ - long before we became mums. 🤰🏽
“right” isn’t universal - it’s personal.
It’s shaped by how we were raised, what we learned would be judged, and the quiet old awareness of being watched or evaluated. 👀
Sometimes our nervous system isn’t reacting to our children at all
…it’s remembering what it once felt like to be judged, corrected, or misunderstood.