09/01/2026
It might take time…but it’s worth it (for everyone)!
For years our sleep was non existent, we spoke to doctors, specialists, trialed medications but nothing seemed to work 🥴
Our evenings, as a couple, were gone as we played ‘tag team’ with trying to get our son to settle and actually sleep - the waking in the nights with the “it’s your turn” being muttered, whilst one of us would desperately try to get some sleep; knowing all to well we would need to be up first thing in the morning to do the school run with everyone else.
We had OT involvement and ended up with, what I called an ‘adult cot’, which looked like a cage that he was still able to climb out of. No matter what we tried, nothing seemed to work and we just thought - this is it.
At the age of 7yr he started accessing respite provision at the specialist school he attended - what a changing point this was for all of us, not only due to us being able to get some much needed sleep ourselves but also because he seemed to settle and sleep SO much better there than at home 🤷🏼♀️
I couldn’t understand why we had so many problems at home and yet at respite he was so different - no ‘specialist’ bed, yes he would still wake early in the mornings but not during the night. I couldn’t comprehend what was so different or what we were doing so wrong - and, being completely honest with you all, I felt bad that he wouldn’t sleep at home.
I visited his respite bedroom on numerous occasions in the hope that something would click, and we’d get same sleeping patterns at home … and eventually it did!
This was the catalyst that made me totally rethink sleep for my son, the routines, the environment and the day to day activities that made (and continue to make) such a difference - and which led me to becoming a certified autism and anxiety sleep specialist too.
My son now sleeps from about 8/9pm to 7am, no stress, no sleep medication, no specialist bed, just rest and relaxation for all the family. And whilst it’s been a long time coming … my god, it’s worth it!
We now have our evenings back, which I can enjoy with all of my children and my husband, and we are all refreshed and ready to take on the day (whatever different battle that might bring 😂).
If you are ready to get your and your child’s sleep back on track, I have some availability for my 1:1 sleep support - pop me a message or drop a comment below and I’ll send you all the details on how we can work together to make a postive change to the sleep in your home too 🥰
Kelly-anne Riley-Smith x