21/10/2025
I look at this photo and want to scoop that little girl up and tell her she’s not broken.
That her worth has nothing to do with her weight
That she doesn’t need to shrink herself to be loved 😥
Back then, I didn’t know any of that.
I thought if I could just be smaller, everything else would fall into place. So I dieted, I binged, I restricted, I started again… over and over.
Each time I promised myself this one will work.
Each time I ended up right back where I started… feeling like a failure.
And that’s why I do what I do now.
Because I know how it feels to be stuck in that cycle, chasing confidence and freedom through diets that only steal both.
The truth is, until you work on you, your beliefs, emotions, and the way you use food to cope - you’ll keep coming full circle.
The answer isn’t in a weight-loss drug or the next ‘plan that finally works’
It’s in healing your relationship with food, your body, and your self-worth.🧚
If I could whisper something to that little girl, it would be this…
You don’t need to be fixed. You just need to come home to yourself.
Three gentle ways you can start doing that now
🧚Notice when you eat from emotion, not hunger, no judgement, just awareness.
🧚Speak kindly to yourself in the mirror, even when it feels awkward.
🧚Ask…what do I really need right now? comfort, rest, connection, or fuel?
Your healing starts when you stop trying to control food and start understanding yourself.
What would you tell your younger self?