21/09/2025
Most of us are aware of the hugely tragic problem with su***de among young men.
Dads/men if you’re still with me please read:-
Your effort, courage, vulnerability & self awareness is needed more than ever.
I am not afraid of my mental health because I see it as something we all have and something we need to be aware of and take care of, as much as, or maybe even more so than our physical health. A healthier mind generally means a healthier body.
I had a difficult time as a young person, experiencing sexual abuse, parental alcoholism, expectations and labels. This took its toll and showed up in many ways such as, eating disorder, body image issues, anxiety, feelings of ‘not being enough’. This is not surprising considering the patriarchal society we live in and I am far from being alone with these experiences.
What I do know is that being open about experience and allowing myself to be vulnerable, was helpful to me and also to others. We are not alone - we are all human and as I said, we all have mental health and physical health.
Recently I have noticed a problem that there are still too many men who can’t, won’t or don’t feel, for some reason, that they can open up about their own mental health. At times, only being vocal about the mental health of others, often females!!!
This to me is playing a huge role in the stigma around male mental health & su***de rates. Although women don’t have equality in this patriarchal system, it is also hugely detrimental to male health.
I have a son, grandsons, nephews, son-in-law & many male friends.
DADS/ALL MEN - Come on
Make the change
Be courageous
Change takes courage
It’s scary I know, but there’s too many male su***des all over the world and only you guys can make that change.
Save lives through your own vulnerability - put yourself out there.
Women are vulnerable, it’s common knowledge, but it makes us stronger in so many ways. Unfortunately you guys have to do the work- we can’t change this on our own.
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