The Youth Fairy

The Youth Fairy A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults. You can be confident your child is in a trusted pair of hands.

UK wide team specialising in Solution Focused Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy. I'm Sian, founder of The Youth Fairy, and I’m dedicated to helping children and teenagers struggling with the effects of anxiety, stress, anger, and low confidence make significant, long term, positive change. I offer a 1-hour consultation face to face in Denton or online, to discuss your child's situation and how I can

help them regain more emotional control and see them feeling happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time. As well as helping young people make these changes, I’m passionate that educating them on their mental health is such an important and essential part of the change process. In the consultation, I’ll explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms. This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and how to promote more mentally healthy behaviours in the future. This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). And because this modern, well-researched approach is solution focused, it means your child won’t have to focus on the past in great detail or revisit traumatic events to move towards their preferred future goals. You’ll also get my relaxation audio downloads to help to improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. In addition to thousands of clinical hours working with young people in my therapy practice, I have worked in education for over a decade as a teacher and previously as a Head of Year, responsible for the social and emotional well-being of the children in my care. You'll also find me out in the local community offering workshops for young people, parents and well-being programmes for teachers and children in primary and secondary schools. I hold an Enhanced DBS and am fully insured.

Exam season can feel like a pressure cooker for teenagers.What looks like procrastination, irritability, or withdrawal i...
04/05/2026

Exam season can feel like a pressure cooker for teenagers.

What looks like procrastination, irritability, or withdrawal is often, in reality, anxiety.

Teenagers are not just revising content; they are managing fear of failure, comparison with their friends, and the pressured belief that these exams are going to define their future.

As a parent, your role is not to remove the stress entirely; a certain level of stress is natural and can even help motivation. But when that stress becomes overwhelming, your child needs help to regulate it.

What helps most is not more pressure, but helping your child to safely navigate their emotions and feel as if you and their home are a safe space. That means reminding them that their worth is not measured in grades, it means not adding pressure to study sessions, and it means noticing and praising effort, not just outcomes.

Help them to break their revision time into manageable chunks and encourage them to take rest, even when it feels counterproductive. And most importantly, stay connected. A calm, steady parent is often the most powerful buffer a teenager has against exam stress.

⭐️ New Blog ⭐️ Exam season is upon us, and the Association of School and College Leaders are reporting a high level of s...
29/04/2026

⭐️ New Blog ⭐️ Exam season is upon us, and the Association of School and College Leaders are reporting a high level of stress and anxiety, resulting in higher levels of requests by students to take exams in separate rooms and higher absences.

😰 At this time of year, the exams can feel all-consuming for Year 11 and 13 students (as well as University students and not to mention those of primary age sitting their SATS).

😰 This can begin to feel overwhelming and can generate stress and anxiety. If your child’s stress bucket (their day-to-day level of worry) is reasonably empty and they are usually coping well, then the tips below will help them to continue to manage the expected stress that comes with taking exams.

When we have challenge stress, which results in a release of cortisol and adrenaline, this helps us to be focused and alert and ready to take on the challenge. When this challenge stress ends, further hormones are released to let our body and brain know that we can return to “normal”.

😰 However, if the stress becomes extended, with the belief that there is no end in sight or perhaps predicting dire outcomes, then we produce more and more of these stress hormones. If your child has been struggling with anxiety for some time (or is particularly anxious about exams) then the cortisol created due to negative rumination, or forecasting, accumulates in our ‘stress bucket’ and starts to have a negative effect on the way we view and approach everyday tasks.

As adults, we will have our own experience of exams, and these may affect the information that we share with our children. For many, we know that exams have an impact on the next choices (college and university offers) but that they ultimately do not define our future. However, as parents (and teachers) motivating our children to revise and do their best, the message sitting with our teens may be that their future depends on these exams.

Now is the time to remind them that they are in exam season and this too shall pass!

So, head on over to The Parent Pad to read this week’s blog in full and find our top Fairy tips to support children and teens through this final stage of revision and into the exam halls.

Take a read here: 👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/tackling-exam-stress/

🧚 At The Youth Fairy, we work with children and teens to build resilience from the inside out - helping them feel strong...
23/04/2026

🧚 At The Youth Fairy, we work with children and teens to build resilience from the inside out - helping them feel stronger, braver, and ready for whatever comes their way.

www.theyouthfairy.com

💛 Does it sometimes feel like everyday requests turn into big battles at home?For some children, extreme resistance to e...
22/04/2026

💛 Does it sometimes feel like everyday requests turn into big battles at home?

For some children, extreme resistance to everyday demands (like getting dressed, brushing teeth or leaving the house) can be linked to PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), a profile within the autism spectrum where demands trigger a strong anxiety response in the brain.

In our latest blog, we explore:
🧠 What PDA is and why it happens
🧠 How the brain’s fight, flight or freeze response can be triggered by demands
🧠 Why traditional behaviour strategies often don’t work
🧠 Gentle, practical ways parents can reduce pressure and support their child

We also share supportive, solution-focused tips such as using indirect language, offering choices, lowering demand on tough days and focusing on connection over control. 🌿

Understanding what’s happening in your child’s nervous system can be a real turning point! Shifting the question from “why won’t they?” to “what does my child need to feel safe?” 💛

The blog also includes UK organisations and support resources for parents, because navigating PDA shouldn’t feel like something you have to do alone.

📖 Read the full blog here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/pathological-demand-avoidance-children/

⭐️ Looking for a place to find helpful tips, advice, insights and resources, to help you support your child’s well-being...
21/04/2026

⭐️ Looking for a place to find helpful tips, advice, insights and resources, to help you support your child’s well-being....

Here it is! The Parent Pad

Some of the recent topics include...

📍Helping your child adjust to a new Sibling
📍Autism Awareness
📍How to Encourage My Child to Sleep in their Own Bed

⭐️ And brand NEW BLOG every Wednesday!

☕️ So get comfy and take a read NOW

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/the-parent-pad/

20/04/2026

So, how can we help our kids manage toxic stress in their childhood and stay balanced?

Becky, The Youth Fairy Hastings shares some more friendly tips that could make a big difference. 🫶🏻

If you haven’t taken a read yet this weeks blog offers more helpful advice on supporting your stressed child. See link in BIO.

At The Youth Fairy, we work with children to build emotional resilience, manage worries, and strengthen those all import...
20/04/2026

At The Youth Fairy, we work with children to build emotional resilience, manage worries, and strengthen those all important coping skills - giving their brains the best chance to grow, learn, and thrive.

Because a calm mind is a growing mind. 🌱

19/04/2026

🧚 We might not be able to take away all of our children’s stress…

But we can provide love, understanding and the right strategies help our children grow up to be calm, confident and resilient.

🧚Gill, The Youth Fairy Halton shares our Top Tips on how to support. 🤗

Read more at the weeks blog - See link in BIO

18/04/2026

🤯 We all know that life can get a bit hectic, and while adults often feel the weight of stress, it’s easy to forget that kids experience it too.

Yes, even the little ones! 😢

🧚 Sarah, The Youth Fairy Guildford & Woking shares the signs that your child might be stressed.

Get more helpful tips and tricks at this weeks brilliant blog!

🧚♂️It's what we do...Smile with happinessSparkle with confidenceStrive to grow & succeedA modern, solution focused appro...
16/04/2026

🧚♂️It's what we do...

Smile with happiness
Sparkle with confidence
Strive to grow & succeed

A modern, solution focused approach to positive change for children and teens struggling with anxiety, stress, anger, and low confidence.

www.theyouthfairy.com

🌿 Stress Isn’t Just for Grown-UpsDid you know that even young children can feel stressed? From school worries to big lif...
15/04/2026

🌿 Stress Isn’t Just for Grown-Ups

Did you know that even young children can feel stressed? From school worries to big life changes, childhood stress is real - and it matters.

In our latest blog, we explore how to spot the signs of stress in children and, most importantly, how you can support them through it. From creating calm spaces to teaching simple relaxation techniques, there’s so much we can do to help our little ones feel safe and supported. 🫶

🌟 Because when children feel heard and understood, they’re more likely to grow into confident, resilient adults.

📖 Read the full blog here

👉 https://www.theyouthfairy.com/understanding-childhood-stress-symptoms/

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