21/05/2024
This is a message to healthcare professionals, fitness professionals and the general public who think shaming people about being overweight is somehow going to magically help them to lose weight...
Do Better!
If shame were the answer to weight loss they probably wouldn't have the problem in the first place!
I have heard too many anecdotes over the years of clumsy (if I am giving the benefit of the doubt), and some downright rude interactions that my clients have had with professionals who are involved in their health care. (Care being the operative word).
There seems to be a lack of compassion towards people who present as overweight and an assumption that their health problems are a result of the extra weight they carry as opposed to the other way around?!
This is particularly true when it comes to people who struggle with chronic pain for a variety of reasons. So often I hear of people who were once fit and very active and thoroughly enjoyed their able body to the full.
But circumstances change, and the body that once ran 10 miles a week and could metabolise the diet to match whilst maintaining a healthy weight is suddenly having to adapt to minimal movement to protect from pain flare ups.
My point is this, people don't need your shame, they need your help and professional advice and support.
Dont assume the circumstances in which the weight was gained, and definitely don't assume their lack of effort to try and keep the weight off! If you haven't got the time to ask and find out, try at least a little compassion and sensitivity.
This person may be grieving the body they used to enjoy, the life they had and envisioned for themselves for the future.
They don't need your shame adding to that. Most of us do that enough for ourselves!!