Driftwood: Counselling and Wellbeing

Driftwood: Counselling and Wellbeing A human first approach to therapy! Humanistic, Gestalt & CBT (integrative) therapist (BSc)

Working with adults and young people to arm you with understanding, confidence and an all round approach to mental wellbeing for a happier and healthier future.

11/06/2025

Let’s talk IMPOSTER SYNDROME!

💚 Mental health matters. Be kind to yourself.
✨ You don’t have to fight these thoughts alone. Reach out. Talk to someone. You’re not alone in this.

🌱 Meet Nik – Therapist at The Counselling Space 🌱“Even the deepest rifts can begin to heal when someone feels truly hear...
23/05/2025

🌱 Meet Nik – Therapist at The Counselling Space 🌱

“Even the deepest rifts can begin to heal when someone feels truly heard.” 💬

Nik’s journey into counselling began with personal experience — navigating the pain of family breakdown, estrangement, and fractured relationships. It’s this lived understanding that drives their passion for helping families, young people, and individuals grow, reconnect, and heal.

At The Counselling Space, Nik specialises in:
💛 Family Relationships – Opening up channels of honest, compassionate communication
🌿 Personal Growth – Helping you understand yourself and make meaningful change
👩‍🏫 Young People & Education – Supporting children and teens through challenges at home and school

Nik works with both adults and young clients, recognising how often miscommunication and unmet needs lie at the heart of family conflict. By creating a safe, non-judgmental space, Nik helps clients uncover what’s really going on — and what’s possible when we truly listen to one another.

🧠💬 If your child is struggling, engaging in your own therapeutic process can be a powerful way to gain insight and move toward connection.

📩 Reach out to find out more or book a session with Nik. Healing starts with a conversation.

https://www.thecounsellingspace.info/nik-1

Contact us today to start your journey to a happier life at The Counselling Space. We're here to help you find your way. Contact us - info@thecounsellingspace.info

Ways to Make Space in Your Finances for TherapyPrioritising your mental health can feel daunting. Between long waiting l...
29/04/2025

Ways to Make Space in Your Finances for Therapy

Prioritising your mental health can feel daunting. Between long waiting lists and therapy costs, the process of getting help can seem like a mountain to climb.

Waiting times for free services in the UK are growing rapidly—and as someone working in both private practice and a charity setting, I see first-hand how overwhelming the demand has become. But just because the lists are long doesn’t mean you are any less of a priority.

Sometimes, finding the right therapist means stepping outside of overstretched services and personally seeking someone who feels like the right fit. That can come with costs—and let’s be honest, that part can feel tough. But there are options. Therapists are human too; many understand the financial challenges and may be more flexible than you think.

If you’re exploring how to make therapy more financially accessible, here are a few starting points:

1. Review Your Spending

Take a good look at your monthly outgoings. Are there non-essential expenses that you could temporarily shift to make room for therapy?

For example:

A daily £3.90 coffee, five times a week = £19.50/week or over £75/month.

Multiple streaming services? Consider trimming down to one.

Some banking apps show spending insights—you might spot patterns in purchases you didn’t even realise were adding up.

This isn’t about depriving yourself, but rather choosing to prioritise your wellbeing in the short term for long-term gain.

2. Look for Concessionary Rates

Many therapists offer reduced fees for those on lower incomes. Find a qualified, regulated therapist on platforms like:

BACP.co.uk

CounsellingDirectory.co.uk

…you can filter your search to find therapists offering sliding-scale pricing.

It’s also okay to start a conversation with a therapist about affordability. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but many practitioners are open to discussing flexible options.

3. Explore Employee Benefits

If you’re employed, check whether your company offers an Employee Assistance Programme (EAP). These often include access to free, short-term counselling—typically 4–6 sessions—to help you get started.

4. Check Your Health Insurance

If you have private health insurance (either personally or through work), see if it includes mental health coverage. You may be able to access a set number of sessions through your policy.

5. Ask Trusted Family for Support

Sometimes, family members are willing and able to help when you need it most. If you feel comfortable, having an honest conversation with someone you trust could open the door to temporary financial support for your mental health journey.

6. Look into Government Support

If you live with a condition that affects your daily life, you may be eligible for Personal Independence Payment (PIP). Some clients have successfully used PIP to fund regular therapy sessions that have made a meaningful difference.

Taking steps to prioritise your mental health isn’t always easy—but it’s worth it. Even small shifts in how you manage your finances can create space for something truly life-changing. It’s not just about affording therapy - it’s about giving yourself the chance to heal, grow, and move forward.

28/03/2025

Being a parent to a young person with mental health challenges is tough to navigate. But remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup, you are important in this too.

Prioritise Your Sleep, Prioritise Your Wellbeing 💤A good night’s sleep isn’t just rest—it’s recovery for your mind and b...
23/03/2025

Prioritise Your Sleep, Prioritise Your Wellbeing 💤

A good night’s sleep isn’t just rest—it’s recovery for your mind and body. Quality sleep boosts your mood, sharpens your focus, and strengthens your resilience. Ditch the late-night scrolling, create a calming bedtime routine, and let yourself recharge. You deserve it! ✨ The Counselling Space

We feel tired in our bodies, we have rest days when we exercise BUT your mind needs to reset too!Your mind works hard ev...
21/03/2025

We feel tired in our bodies, we have rest days when we exercise BUT your mind needs to reset too!

Your mind works hard every day, processing thoughts, emotions, and endless to-do lists. Just like your body, it needs rest too. Take a deep breath, step away from the noise, and give yourself permission to simply be. Unplug, unwind, and let stillness recharge you—because peace of mind isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity.

17th Feb is Random Acts of Kindness Day. Why not do something kind for someone who needs it, maybe even something for yo...
16/02/2025

17th Feb is Random Acts of Kindness Day.

Why not do something kind for someone who needs it, maybe even something for yourself to lift your spirits and your mind.

28/01/2025

RED January day 27 ♥️

Each day the TCS team are taking part to raise money for RED January and today was Nicola’s day and she went to play badminton.

She said: After a long day with students, Jon and I decided to get our trainers back on and have a laugh playing badminton. We forgot just how much fun it actually was. Endorphins released, laughs, and smiles all round despite the tough day.

Thank you to Jon for being a great sport.

Please support us my donating - https://join.redjanuary.com/fundraisers/thecounsellingspace

If you can’t donate, please support us by liking and sharing this post, Or even joining us!! Tag us in what you do throughout January to help you 😊

28/01/2025

Today I fit in a game of badminton with my good friend before seeing a client. It was great and really gave me some good headspace.

Thanks to Jon for the laughs and giving me the motivation to keep going for our cause to raise awareness of the benefits of movement on mental health

19/01/2025

This month I have taken part in RED January to raise awareness of the benefits of movement on mental health.

Not only getting involved has had a great impact on my mind, it’s encouraged me to make connections with people, increasing my own confidence and helping me to not fall in to a trap on the sofa.

You can build movement up from simple stretching at home to attending a class or club.

Benefits of exercise for mental health

Mood: Exercise releases feel-good chemicals in the brain, such as endorphins and dopamine, which can improve your mood

Stress and anxiety: Exercise can reduce stress and anxiety, and help you feel less frustrated and angry

Sleep: Exercise can help you sleep better, which can help you manage your mood

Self-esteem: Exercise can boost your self-esteem and confidence

Focus: Exercise can improve your focus and working memory

Socialising: Exercise can help you meet new people and connect with friends and family

Sense of purpose: Exercise can give you a goal to work towards and a sense of purpose

Cognitive decline: Exercise can help prevent cognitive decline

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