11/03/2026
This is part one of a mini series of common questions about s*x in pregnancy.
Fernandez-Carrasco et al (2024) looked at 19 studies that assessed libido experiences in pregnancy. Most found that there was a decline in libido, but some found an increase. There was also a common pattern of decline in the first trimester, increase in the second & decline again in the third.
What does this mean? Changes in libido in pregnancy are completely normal! The fact that different studies found different things, mean there is no one "normal". All experiences are valid.
I think it's important to be able to talk candidly about topics like s*x with your care provider. If it's a question going round your mind, you should be able to ask it to someone who will give you an evidence based answer, without judgement.
If you don't feel like you can ask these questions, are they the right midwife for you?
If you feel comfortable sharing, it'd be great to hear about your experience on libido in pregnancy. Let's get rid of the taboo, only fear can thrive there!
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