11/05/2026
my biggest fear during IVF was not the needles, the scans, not even the results calls (although they were the worstttttt) it was the quiet one that sat underneath all of it, that time was running out and it still might not work.
I remember thinking, I am doing everything. the supplements, the diet, the appointments, spending thousands, changing everything about how I ate and lived, and still not being able to shake the feeling that none of it might be enough. that I might never become a mum đ„ș
that fear is not something people donât really reveal, because from the outside TTC looks like a process, a checklist, a protocol. but from the inside it feels like you are racing against something you cannot see, spending money you cannot get back, and trying to hold onto hope when nobody can actually promise you it is going to work.
if that is where you are right now, that fear makes complete sense and it does not mean it is not going to happen for you.
what helped me was feeling like I was doing everything in my control as well as I possibly could in the 90 days before each cycle. not always perfectly, but intentionally. and that is exactly what I help women do now.
if you want to talk about what that could look like for you, comment CONNECT and letâs have a conversation.
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