13/12/2025
Do you compare yourself to others daily? Be honest… 👀😅
Comparison often starts quietly. It can show up as a quick glance at someone else’s life, achievements, confidence, or appearance and slowly turn into a story that you are somehow “less than”. Over time, this can erode self-esteem and create a constant sense of pressure to measure up. You might recognise this if you find yourself scrolling and feeling behind, doubting your own progress, or minimising your achievements because someone else seems to be doing better.
I caught myself doing exactly this this week, comparing my own Christmas planning, wondering why my presents were not all sorted yet, why my decorations were not up when others seemed to have had theirs up for ages, and questioning why I was not yet feeling the excitement and smiles that so many people already seem to be sharing.
Counselling offers a thoughtful space to explore why comparison feels so powerful and what sits beneath it. It can help you understand the emotional roots of comparison, the early experiences that shaped it, and how to reconnect with your own values rather than living through someone else’s benchmark. This work is not about pretending comparison does not exist, but about developing a steadier sense of self that is less shaken by what you see around you.
What happens when you stop looking sideways and start looking inward?
If comparison feels heavy for you, and you would like a calm, supportive space to explore it at your own pace, you are very welcome to reach out for online video counselling with me. If you choose counselling with me, you will meet a real human being, bringing warmth, honesty, and humanity into the work, with my strengths and flaws and all.
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