By Your Side Companions

By Your Side Companions Providing quality care and companionship to members within our community

📍 Ferndown & surrounding areas
📞 07702 499196
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10/02/2026

Life changes in an instant after a haemorrhagic stroke, and around half of people who are affected do not survive.

Thankfully, when it happened to Natalie's dad in 2025, he did survive.

'I'd been in the office all day,' Natalie remembers. She rang her parents to check in on them, 'We were scheduled to go on a trip that we were all excited about.'

Her parents explained that her dad had been feeling unwell throughout the day and was not quite himself. He was dizzy, frequently bumping into things, had a severe headache, and his blood pressure was very high when they tested it on a home monitor.

Because her dad did not have the three most common signs of stroke—face drooping, arm weakness, and speech problems, known as the FAST test—no one initially suspected a stroke.

At first, her parents were reluctant to contact a health professional, wanting to ‘avoid making a fuss’. But after some convincing, they rang 111.

An appointment was made for Urgent Care, which was quickly escalated to an A&E visit.

'When I arrived to pick them up,' Natalie said, 'they explained an ambulance had been offered but, not wanting to inconvenience anyone, they turned it down.' So Natalie drove her parents to a regional hospital further away.

Once there, after initial tests, the seriousness of the situation became clear. In a small consultation room in the early hours of the morning, Natalie was told her dad 'has a large and severe brain bleed'.

‘The news came as a huge shock and the effects will impact us forever as we navigate this new version of family life.’

Natalie admits that before it happened, she had ‘limited knowledge of strokes… but the parts I did know about, like FAST, were not relevant when my dad had a “massive brain bleed”.

'I felt compelled to create this sketchnote as I don’t think any of us could have predicted his stroke from his symptoms, because they didn't align with the traditional FAST signs.

‘Of course, a little cartoon in a sketchnote can’t fully convey everything we saw that day, or how my dad felt,’ she says, ‘but if it helps even one person become more aware of the lesser-known signs of stroke, then it will be worth it.’

29/01/2026
18/01/2026

Come along to our monthly art sessions for people with memory loss and Dementia. Full details on the poster below.
Moors MiscellanySpotted West MoorsWest Moors Village SurgeryWest Moors Town CouncilCrane Valley Primary Care NetworkWimborne and Ferndown PCN

Merry Christmas to all my clients / friends Thank you all for choosing me to be a companion, for you ,  for a loved one ...
25/12/2025

Merry Christmas to all my clients / friends

Thank you all for choosing me to be a companion, for you , for a loved one , or someone you may know .

I have had such a lovely year, I am so grateful to you all.

I love what I do !

I love all of you ###

To all who know me, I am sometimes a soft touch ❤️

Love to you and all your families 😘 🎄🎅🍸

How to make my Fridays better ....Morning with this lovely 😍 What did we get up too....Appointments ✔️Catching up ✔️Chri...
12/12/2025

How to make my Fridays better ....

Morning with this lovely 😍

What did we get up too....
Appointments ✔️
Catching up ✔️
Christmas songs ( singing )✔️
Mince pies & cream 😋

Smile's all round ❤️

Such a lovely Care home in West Moors xx ❤️
11/10/2025

Such a lovely Care home in West Moors xx ❤️

Oh why hello there little mouse ... Catch me if you can 🤣
29/07/2025

Oh why hello there little mouse ...

Catch me if you can 🤣

Lovely morning walk over spetisbury this morning followed by a coffee at the newly opened Old Parlour.
10/07/2025

Lovely morning walk over spetisbury this morning followed by a coffee at the newly opened Old Parlour.

Earlish start with my first lady ... legs washed/creamed and stockings on ✔️Followed with a lovely visit where I get to ...
08/07/2025

Earlish start with my first lady ... legs washed/creamed and stockings on ✔️

Followed with a lovely visit where I get to see this beautiful garden and flowers ... changes every week ❤️

home

Who doesnt love a garden centre ❤️🤪
26/06/2025

Who doesnt love a garden centre ❤️🤪

At the request of our client she wanted me to bring my little pocket rocket to work this morning ... We had a fab time d...
24/06/2025

At the request of our client she wanted me to bring my little pocket rocket to work this morning ...

We had a fab time dressing up with one sock for Evie and one for our lovely lady , then trying on shoes.. Joshie had someone to follow around and then we were rewarded with chocolate 🍫.. 🤣🤣

20/06/2025

If I get dementia, I’d like my friends to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.

1a. Every time you enter the room announce yourself. “Hi its me ( your name )
NEVER ask- Do you know who I am??? That causes anxiety.

1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.

2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.

3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.

4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.

5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.

6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.

7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.

8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.

9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.

10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.

11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.

12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.

13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.

14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.

15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.

16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.

17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.

18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.

19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.

20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.

21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

ᴄᴏᴘʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘᴀsᴛᴇ in Honor of someone you know or knew who has dementia. In Honor of all those I know and love and lost who are fighting Dementia/Alzheimer’s. 🦋

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