Mature Eros, Frome, Frome (2025)

03/09/2025

❤️‍🔥GOING LIVE ON THE POWER OF PLEASURE!❤️‍🔥
Beyond excited to share a juicy chat with bodacious fellow Queen of Pleasure Eugina O Liberty tomorrow 7pm - live on her group The Or****ic Queen of Self Love.

Cum join us!😜❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Facebook live: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/16tHVLPRVq/?mibextid=wwXIfr

31/08/2025

💥COSMIC WHACK!💥
Have you ever received what feels like an awakening whack?!
I got one yesterday as I slammed my car door into my forehead and split open my third eye area…blood EVERYWHERE….shaken, stirred and wobbly a dear friend took me to hospital and sat with me as tears rolled down my face with the shock.

That afternoon was filled with so much kindness and such an exquisite reminder of the beauty of human hearts…
🌹my friend who stayed with me for 2 hours and got me a sarnie
🌹the man who got me tissues from reception when I was bawling and gently touched my hand with them
🌹the 2 AMAZING nurses who were so compassionate and funny - of course in our few minutes together there was top banter and they became NBF’s!
🌹another friend who arrived and gave me the biggest hug
🌹my lovely neighbour who said she’d get me some arnica

So grateful to receive so much love and support at a time of vulnerability…🌹

The lessons percolating through me from this experience are:

♥️SLOW.THE.F**K.DOWN (yes that one AGAIN - obvs haven’t got the memo on that one yet!🙄)
♥️love and support is all around me in ABUNDANCE I just need to ask and RECEIVE - not get into a ‘toughing it out alone’ story
♥️a knock to my third eye feels significant as it’s the centre of our higher consciousness and a portal to interconnectedness beyond our human selves.
🌹loving that I’ll be sporting a witchy crescent moon scar on my third eye soon!🌙

I’m paying attention!

In the meantime it looks like I’ll have one if not two black eyes - another new experience in this rich life of mine!

Any thoughts about the significance of a whack to the third eye welcome in comments. ♥️🙏🏼♥️

29/08/2025

❤️‍🔥EMBODIED PLEASURE IS THE REVOLUTION ❤️‍🔥
When we practice cultivating pleasure in our bodies it really IS the Revolution the world needs right now!!

Why? Because:
💥pleasure practices reset our nervous system out of stress and into ease and aliveness
💥when we are in pleasure our intuition and inner knowing is activated - we are more turned on
💥we are WAAAAY less easy to control by ‘the powers that be’ when our inner bulls**t-ometers are switched on!
💥we trust the whisper of our bodies knowing and wisdom - this becomes our compass for living in integrity and making the right choices in our lives
💥we are less likely to be pulled into the fear and drama presented by the mainstream media and matrix because our OWN narrative feels right and true
💥embodied pleasure is energising so we are better resourced to take action and respond to create a better environment around us

AND we feel healthy, vibrant, turned on and responsive to receive ALL of life, including more capacity to feel it all rather than numbing out or collapsing.

What’s not to like?!!
Pleasure is not a luxury it’s a NECESSITY!❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Love always, The Queen of Pleasure 🌹

28/08/2025

🎉CELEBRATING!🎉
Whoop whoop! So excited to share this article in the gorgeous glossy ‘Haus of Wisdom’ about my life journey and how it led to the birth of Mature Eros !

I met recently and it was love at first sight! A meeting of badass embodied energy, humour, depth and full power!💥💥💥
She invited me to be in this issue and I’m delighted and honored to be featured in such a high quality trailblazing spiritual magazine.

I asked Buckso to describe her vision and what she’s bringing with ‘Haus of Wisdom’:

“The creation of this magazine had been the result of a passion project after my dad passed in 2020. It became clear that there was a wisdom I’d received as a result of my grief and in that moment, Haus of Wisdom was borne, to act as a resource that I wish I’d had 30 years ago, in order to navigate my own spiritual life path journey. The future of medicine lies in frequency, and this creation is weighted with all of that, feel it for yourself as you enter this portal of progression”

To see the full issue press the link here:

https://hausofwisdom.com/

26/08/2025

❤️‍🔥WAITING FOR ‘THE ONE’❤️‍🔥
As women we are often conditioned to outsource our pleasure and wait for ‘the one’….
🌹believing we need a lover to give us pleasure
🌹thinking we need another to ‘complete and fulfil us’
🌹waiting and yearning for ‘the right one’ to meet all our needs in relationship
🌹thinking that ‘one’ has to tick ALL our boxes in order to be considered

What if, as mature women, WE ARE THE ONE?!!!💫☄️💥
Our bodies of pleasure contain the fu***ng cosmos!! The moon, the stars, the rippling rivers, the gushing oceans….ALL OF IT!!💥

I’m busting a few myths about what s🌹xuality can look and feel like for mature women like me.
In my 60th year I choose to prioritise my own self pleasure practices FIRST… becoming my own best lover so that inviting another into this space is the cherry on top of the cake rather than coming from neediness….SOOOO liberating!!

Also being super clear, honest and discerning about what I REALLY REALLY WANT right now:
🌹I’m deeply devoted to creating and birthing Mature Eros so not feeling I want a full time relationship at this time
🌹my emotional and intimacy needs are met by beautiful friends
🌹my self pleasure practices keep my nervous system regulated and my body thrumming with pleasure
🌹I LOVE my space, independence and alone time!

AND….I want my s🌹xual needs met - and guess what? In my 60th year I get to CHOOSE what this looks and feels like!!
🌹I’m not looking for someone to load the dishwasher with
🌹I’m not looking to be supported emotionally or financially
🌹I no longer need someone to father my children

So I called in a Ta***ic lover and we co-create lush juicy Temple time with clear agreements and boundaries every couple of weeks and outside of that live our own lives! WIN WIN BOOM!!💥 💥💥💥

I’m cheering on mature women to create the pleasure and s🌹xual life THEY DESIRE by starting with becoming their own best lovers - not a bad place to start right?!!!❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

YOU GET TO CHOOSE QUEEN!!👸

22/08/2025

💥YOUR BODY IS NOT BROKEN💥
There is so much pervasive fear mongering coming at our mature female bodies.
Being told:
💥there’s something wrong with our bodies
💥they don’t work ‘properly’ anymore
💥ageing is to be feared and prevented at ALL COSTS
💥a quick fix is needed ‘to make it all go away’ regarding menopausal symptoms
💥everything is drying up/shrivelling/defunct
💥that menopause is all about loss and we need to cling to youth to ‘get through it’
💥that menopause is a condition to be fixed rather than a powerful rite of passage

It’s a menopausal MINEFIELD out there and how do we navigate what’s best for us with so much conflicting info/advice?

We have been conditioned not to trust our own bodies. Most women are so disconnected and in their heads that they have no idea how they FEEL anymore…

Our bodies are often exhausted, under resourced and neglected - NOT BROKEN…they are crying out for loving attention from US!

Coming back to our own bodies, slowing down and doing Mature Eros practices to calm the nervous system and create ease and pleasure in the body is one of the most powerful portals to tap into our intuition and inner knowing again to guide us through this chapter.

For a taste of how this feels sign up in comments👇 to receive my free Golden Nectar meditation.

19/08/2025

🌹MY MATURE BODY🌹
This body of mine is like a landscape that has evolved over time. Well travelled, well nourished and constantly changing.

Earth my body is the body of Earth.

The soft curves like the velvety rolling hills of my Ancestral lands, the lines and wrinkles on my face the map and roads of a life well lived and loved.

This strong wise healthy body that has grown and birthed 2 children, trekked to Machu Picchu, swum in oceans, danced wildly for HOURS, processed and shaken off old trauma, held and hugged teary children and friends and loved passionately and fiercely….

I have not always been kind and honouring to her…Decades of body dysmorphia from childhood abuse and trauma meant I punished and berated my fullness….I felt fat, ugly and unlovable for sooooo long.
It was a shameful secret I masked with my ‘Sally Sunshine’ persona - All singing, all dancing, all smiling…

Until I crashed and dived into the Underworld with 5 years of serious depression and came through with the gift of ta***ic practice and deep enquiry and healing.

It has only been in my 50’s that I have practiced and learnt self pleasure and REALLY started to love and appreciate my body as it is right here right NOW.

Since this big love affair began my body and erotic aliveness are responding with so much pleasure and Eros thrumming through my body I can hardly believe it!! So much vibrancy, aliveness, energy and s🌹xual life force…it really IS the Second Cuming!!😜❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Beyond grateful to have found the love of my life - my very own body!🌹

12/08/2025

❤️‍🔥DREAM TEAM❤️‍🔥
What an honour and pleasure to welcome the AMAZING Amelia Griffiths to Mature Eros HQ as my new badass business advisor and strategist!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’m BEYOND delighted to have this extraordinarily talented, wise and experienced woman join me to support building the business structure of Mature Eros.
It’s been a fast and furious gestation and birth that is mushrooming into not just an online biz but a revolutionary movement to support mature women find their pleasure and purpose again.
I’m dedicating the rest of my life to this and need a trusted team to build with. Having the skills of Amelia on board to build solid financial and business structure allows my nervous system to relax and for me to stay in my magic miracle zone and not get frazzled trying to do it all.
If you are a female entrepreneur looking for this kind of support Amelia has a few new spaces available so reach out to her - you won’t regret it!! We’re only on our 2nd session and already I feel lighter and brighter!💥

10/08/2025

❤️‍🔥BODYTALK❤️‍🔥
The more embodied I become, the more tuned in I am to what my body needs and wants….so even when my mind is saying GO,GO,GO!! My body can give very different signals that say SLOW.THE.F**K.DOWN….

If I don’t listen to my body and push through the wheels can fall off.
In the last few weeks I’ve identified a pattern running - as a Solopreneur I feel constantly ‘Switched on’ - constantly mulling over what’s next, how to grow my new biz, creating content, planning ahead…etc etc….
It’s a very real dilemma for those of us holding such huge responsibility!!
I find it hard to create space where I give myself permission to ‘Switch Off’….

After 6 months being a blazing comet creating and launching Mature Eros my body and nervous system are feeling a deep level of exhaustion and are a tad frazzled….I was laid out last week with a big purge of sickness and diarrhoea….
I realised a few patterns playing out that were not supporting me:

🌹I wasn’t celebrating all the achievements in these 6 months enough but rather moving straight to ‘what’s next?’ - this missing part of the loop kept me in a dopamine pushing hard rather than receiving my own gifts and gems ….it became out of balance…
🌹NOT DOING ENOUGH OF MY OWN PLEASURE PRACTICES!!🫣
Not tending to my precious body enough to keep her in slow burn oxytocin - which is super nourishing and energising - no wonder I feel under resourced right now! Walk your talk baby and take your own medicine!!🤪
🌹As a fire sign I burn and blaze BRIGHT… so I’m noticing my soft slow pleasure practices support that inner fire to glow in a more nourishing slow burn way rather than burning me out.

So even after just a few days of coming back to more self pleasure I feel softer and more expansive…. More centred and nourished….

Pleasure is an INSIDE JOB and a PRACTICE NOT A GIVEN….tending to our own tenderness and body with deep devotion and care is the biggest gift we can give ourselves for ongoing health, wellbeing and vibrancy.

For a taste of what’s possible for yourself if this resonates, sign up with link in bio👇 to receive my FREE Golden Nectar meditation🪽

10/08/2025

❤️‍🔥BODYTALK❤️‍🔥
The more embodied I become, the more tuned in I am to what my body needs and wants….so even when my mind is saying GO,GO,GO!! My body can give very different signals that say SLOW.THE.F**K.DOWN….

If I don’t listen to my body and push through the wheels can fall off.
In the last few weeks I’ve identified a pattern running - as a Solopreneur I feel constantly ‘Switched on’ - constantly mulling over what’s next, how to grow my new biz, creating content, planning ahead…etc etc….
It’s a very real dilemma for those of us holding such huge responsibility!!
I find it hard to create space where I give myself permission to ‘Switch Off’….

After 6 months being a blazing comet creating and launching Mature Eros my body and nervous system are feeling a deep level of exhaustion and are a tad frazzled….I was laid out last week with a big purge of sickness and diarrhoea….
I realised a few patterns playing out that were not supporting me:

🌹I wasn’t celebrating all the achievements in these 6 months enough but rather moving straight to ‘what’s next?’ - this missing part of the loop kept me in a dopamine pushing hard rather than receiving my own gifts and gems ….it became out of balance… a dear friend sat with me and wrote a list of everything I’ve done thus far with Mature Eros - wow!! We were super impressed and celebrated it all!!🎉
🌹NOT DOING ENOUGH OF MY OWN PLEASURE PRACTICES!!🫣
Not tending to my precious body enough to keep her in slow burn oxytocin - which is super nourishing and energising - no wonder I feel under resourced right now! Walk your talk baby and take your own medicine!!🤪
🌹As a fire sign I burn and blaze BRIGHT… so I’m noticing my soft slow pleasure practices support that inner fire to glow in a more nourishing slow burn way rather than burning me out.

So even after just a few days of coming back to more self pleasure I feel softer and more expansive…. More centred and nourished….

Pleasure is an INSIDE JOB and a PRACTICE NOT A GIVEN….tending to our own tenderness and body with deep devotion and care is the biggest gift we can give ourselves for ongoing health, wellbeing and vibrancy.

For a taste of what’s possible for yourself if this resonates, sign up in comments below 👇 to receive my FREE Golden Nectar meditation.

03/08/2025

🌹RELATING TO OUR OWN FEMALE BODIES🌹

As we know patriarchal systems and the doctrine of organised religion have not been kind or reverential to female bodies or the body of the Earth we live on.😞

AND….what I speak into here is how centuries of this conditioning has meant that as women we have been at WAR with our OWN BODIES - unkind thoughts and behavioural patterns running that create disharmony and deregulation:

- dieting culture that stresses the body into being unwell and weak
- starving ourselves of the right nutrition with low fat foods and fads
- criticising our bodies, curves and skin
- too fat, too thin, too much, not enough - always something wrong/needs fixing…
- comparing and criticising each others bodies - in my lived experience women are often WAAAAY more judgy of female bodies than a lot of men!
- we have internalised misogynistic and patriarchal conditioning that creates self judgement, sabotage and staying small, quiet and behaving like ‘good girls’
- not honoring our menstrual cycles - pushing through/not resting enough - causing stress and dis-ease in our wombs and systems
- adopting too much masculine pushing/doing that causes strain and exhaustion in our bodies and nervous systems
- buying into a youth obsessed culture that cultivates fear for the ageing process (and makes BILLIONS from selling us s**t products that are mostly toxic and DISRUPTING our hormones!!🤮)

IS IT ANY WONDER MOST WOMEN HIT PERIMENOPAUSE AND CRASH?!!🫣

I believe the carefully curated programmes and self enquiry I’ve created with ME are the sustainable reclamation and recalibration our exhausted bodies need to remember and come back to our pleasurable, easeful and joyful selves!!

Are you ready? If yes join the link in comments below to receive my FREE Golden Nectar meditation- a great place to start love bombing your precious self!❤️‍🔥🌹❤️‍🔥🌹❤️‍🔥

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