14/12/2025
âŒïžđĄLetâs talk about whatâs really going on in this worldâbehind closed doors, on our streets, and at the hands of people we are taught to trust. Abuse, grooming, and exploitation are not rare âhorror storiesâ that only happen somewhere far away; they happen in family homes, in schools, in churches, in sports clubs, and online, carried out by parents, relatives, partners, teachers, coaches, religious leaders, and authority figures. Children and vulnerable people are being hurt in silence while abusers hide behind respectability, power, and secrecy. Too often, victims are doubted, shamed, or pressured to stay quiet to âprotect the familyâ or an institutionâs reputation. If we are serious about protecting children and survivors, we have to tear down the silence, confront these uncomfortable truths, believe those who speak out, and demand real accountability and change from the systems and people we trust.âŒïžThis has been going on since the beginning of time!!!
âŒïžPedophilia, child molestation, and grooming cause deep, longâterm damage to victims, and this abuse often happens in their own home, at the hands of people they should be able to trustđĄ. As children, victims may feel terrified, confused, and trapped, especially if the abuser is a parent, relative, or caregiver they depend on. Grooming makes this worse by twisting love, attention, and secrecy so the child may feel responsible, guilty, or unsure that whatâs happening is abuse. This can destroy their sense of safety and self-worth, leading to nightmares, anxiety, problems at school, withdrawal from friends, and a constant feeling of being unsafe even in familiar places.
As adults, many survivors continue to suffer serious mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, postâtraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), dissociation, and intense shame. To cope with overwhelming emotions, some turn to addictionâalcohol, drugs, self-harm, eating disorders, or other compulsive behaviorsâto numb pain or regain a sense of control. The trauma can also cause difficulties with intimacy and trust, making it hard to form or maintain healthy relationships, and can interfere with work, parenting, and everyday functioning. The impact is lifelong for many, which is why understanding, nonâjudgmental support, and access to traumaâinformed mental health care are critical for healing.đȘ
đ€Both male and female survivors can struggle with PTSD, depression, anxiety, self-harm, addiction, sexual difficulties, and relationship problems. However, males are statistically less likely to disclose, more likely to stay silent for longer, and more likely to have their abuse misunderstood or dismissed. Females are somewhat more likely to be believed but may face heavy victim-blaming and sexual shaming. In both cases, the abuse is never the childâs fault, and both male and female survivors deserve to have their experiences taken seriously, believed, and supported with traumaâinformed care.âŒïž
đĄThis is not âsomeone elseâs problemâ or a rare tragedy on the news; itâs happening all around us, behind closed doors and in plain sight, while too many adults look away, stay silent, or make excuses. Every time we ignore the signs, doubt a child, protect a reputation, or stay quiet because itâs âuncomfortable,â we help protect the abuser instead of the victim. That has to stop!!đ€Ź. We must believe children when they speak. We must educate ourselves about grooming and abuse, report concerns, and demand accountability from families, institutions, and systems that fail to keep kids safe. Our silence is a shield for abusers; our voices can be a lifeline for a child. Stand up. Speak up. Draw the line. The protection of children is not optionalâitâs our responsibility. đŻâŒïž
đđ«”The Bible is very clear that God (Yahweh, the Source) takes the protection of children and vulnerable people extremely seriously, and that harming them is a grave sin.!!
Jesus (Yeshua) gives one of the strongest warnings in all of Scripture about hurting children or causing them to stumble:
Matthew 18:6 â âBut if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.â đđ ( now this is my kind of God!)
đ€đȘRegardless of what we believe, what religion we follow, or how we choose to understand and name the SourceâGod, Yahweh, the Universe, Spiritâone truth should unite us all: our children must be protected. Abuse, grooming, and exploitation are vile, poisonous evil's that destroy lives, and they do not care what faith, culture, or background a family comes from. This is bigger than any difference in belief. Children cannot defend themselves against predators who manipulate, lie, and hide behind respectability, power or a familiar face, It is our dutyâas parents, caregivers, neighbours, leaders, and human beingsâto draw a hard line and say: no more. We must listen to children, believe them, educate ourselves, speak out, and refuse to stay silent to âkeep the peaceâ or protect an image.Their safety and innocence are not negotiable.âđȘđ
đ§đEducating our children is one of the strongest protections we can give them. We need to teach them, from a young age and in age-appropriate ways, about body boundaries, consent, and the difference between safe and unsafe touch. They should know that no oneâno matter who they areâhas the right to make them feel uncomfortable, scared, or pressured, and that secrets about touch are never okay. We must show them that their voice matters, that they can say âno,â and that they can always come to us without fear of getting in trouble. Education also means teaching them about online safety, grooming behaviors, and how to trust their instincts when something feels wrong. When we educate our children, we are not âruining their innocenceââwe are giving them tools, language, and confidence to protect that innocence and to reach out for help if they ever need it.đ
At my clinic, I am determined to help you heal deep trauma whether you are a child or an adult! to heal it at its rootâright down to the patterns that feel like they are carried in your very DNA. My work is focused on releasing the energetic and emotional imprints of what youâve been through, so you no longer feel trapped by the past or by family and generational wounds. I am here to empower you, to help you reclaim your power, your voice, and your boundaries, and to support you in rebuilding genuine confidence and self-worth.
My clinic is here to support and heal not only the victim, but also the family members whose lives have been shattered by the abuse. Trauma does not stay with just one personâit ripples through parents, siblings, and loved ones, affecting relationships, trust, mental health, and everyday life. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where survivors can process what has happened, release the pain, and begin to rebuild their sense of self, power, and safety. At the same time, I support family members as they work through shock, grief, anger, guilt, and confusion, helping them to understand trauma, respond in healthy ways, and become a strong, grounded support system for the survivor. Healing is a family journey, and my clinic is committed to walking that path with you, every step of the way.đ
