29/04/2026
That thought isn’t always said out loud…
but it’s there for so many women.
“What if I feel disconnected from my birth…”
The clinical environment.
The gown.
The monitoring.
The electrodes.
It can feel like things are happening to you, rather than you being part of it.
But there are small, thoughtful ways to make the experience feel more personal, more connected, and more yours:
– Wearing your gown backwards can make skin-to-skin easier, helping you bring your baby straight onto your chest
– Asking for cannulas to be placed in your non-dominant hand can make holding your baby feel more comfortable and natural
– Positioning monitoring or electrodes on your back can help keep your chest clear for closeness
– Playing your own music can soften the environment and help you stay grounded
– Using a familiar scent or calming anchor can help your body relax and feel safe
That early closeness matters.
Skin-to-skin contact supports the release of oxytocin, the hormone that helps bonding, calm, and connection, for both you and your baby 🤍
It doesn’t have to feel cold or impersonal.
With a little preparation, even a clinical space can feel more familiar, more supported… and more like your birth.
This is something we gently explore in my pregnancy relaxation classes, helping you feel calm, prepared, and connected, whatever your birth looks like.
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This is the final post for Caesarean Awareness Month.
From 4th May, I’ll be sharing content for Maternal Mental Health Awareness Week — follow along 🤍.