Michele Willmott

15/01/2026

Whilst the majority of people get stuck feeling that their partner holds the key to their relationship happiness....my clients are willing to take a much closer look.

Even though their relationships might look 'worse' on the surface because they are in some form of 'crisis', they are giving themselves the opportunity to realise their power when it comes to love.

Bottom line - if you are not seeing or experiencing the kind of relationship you really want....you in your power are THE person who can create that.

Activating the power in your negative feelings and thoughts is what will upset the applecart in all the right ways...no need to leave....just access more love that could be available to you.

14/01/2026

Magnetism doesn't come from staying positive or trying to be high vibe.

It comes from knowing how to work with the full spectrum of your emotional world and not by-passing your negative feelings.

09/01/2026

When staying, leaving, or changing your relationship feels urgent,
and you don’t want fear to make the decision for you.
​
Not unhappy enough to leave?
Not fulfilled enough to stay?
​
Are you looking for a way for something to move in your relationship
without blowing everything up?
​
You are not looking to destroy your life
just to escape a feeling.
​
You’re not looking for reassurance.
You’re not looking for permission to leave.
You’re looking for change and choice, without panic driving it.
​
You might be convinced the problem is the relationship.
And yes, there may be real issues.
​
But what changes everything
is realising that fear has been subtly shaping
how trapped, urgent, and polarised everything feels.
​
When fear loosens, something else becomes possible.
​
Not because your partner suddenly changes.
Or because you have to eliminate fear altogether.
​
But because you change the state you are relating from.
​
Energy never lies.
​
This is your 'Turning Point' and it shows you exactly
why nothing you have been trying so far has been working.
Details in the comments below.

06/01/2026

Before communication changes,
before repair works,
before intimacy deepens...

the internal space you are relating from has to shift.

The Turning Point is that moment.

An initiation into a different relational field.

This is where your 'new' relationship gets created.

If you feel the pull to experience it for yourself, you can begin via the link in the comments.

05/01/2026

+ / -
Emotional Safety is Sexy.

02/01/2026

All those judgements you have of your partner...contain the seeds of YOUR magnetism...

01/01/2026

01/01/2026

When your partner is triggered by something you have said and you are standing there all calm and collected....

And you are thinking, why won't they sort themselves out and get in touch with their feelings.

And you absolve yourself of any responsibility in the dynamic.

Welcome to the avoidant part of you.

The part that is not willing to look closer at your language or your behaviour.

You ARE playing a role somewhere.

It's up to you to find it ....

That's if you want consistent REAL connection and intimacy to actually exist in your relationship.
Consistent by the way, does not mean all the time.

Radical responsibility is not about taking all the blame.
It is about stepping up and accepting that your words, your behaviour often carry negatives or limitations that impact your partner.

It is also about recognising that the energy behind your words is often distorted.

You might sound reasonable, caring even.
The intention might be in the right place.

It doesn't mean you are not speaking from shadow whatsoever and this is a fear based part of you (often unrecognised).
Shadow carries distortion and WILL trigger your partner 9 out of 10 times.

Bottom line as always, it is NEVER just on one person.

If you don't know the difference between what is clean communication energetically and what is shadow communication, DM for access to the Turning Point...the threshold experience where your relationship will never be the same again, for all the best reasons.

31/12/2025

You are not thinking about leaving your partner because you haven't tried.

You’re thinking about it because you have.

And nothing essential has changed.

You’ve adjusted: how you speak and your tone.

You’ve tried: saying how you feel, encouraging your partner.

And still, the same dynamic returns.

That’s because effort and awareness can only take your relationship so far.

At this point, the energy driving your words and behaviour is THE thing that will make or break your relationship (and is currently breaking it).

From here, there are only two paths.

The pattern repeats.

OR

A deeper level of responsibility must be taken.

This is your sliding door moment.

Choose the right door

Or repeat.

Fed up with wasting your precious time in Groundhog Day?

Feel free to reach out to explore your next steps.

30/12/2025

28/12/2025

Choose to work WITH them or let them dictate your love life...