30/03/2026
I had to rebuild my relationship and my business from the ground up because whatever I seemed to try just didn't shift things.
And I just went round in circles.
The same pain and hurt. The same doubts and fear.
Questioning over and over whether either were meant to be.
Coupled with a horrific menopause, I felt like I was being hugely tested.
All my certifications in Imago Dialogue, psychotherapy and coaching were not helping. No matter who I signed up to work with for support, I still kept going round in circles.
And so I started searching online. I was desperate to find an answer.
I found one article after days of searching that shifted something in me.
In fact it was a huge relief because it reinforced a ni**le I had inside, that surely I was creating this for myself.
The idea that I was self-sabotaging in ways I just could not see.
And if I was sabotaging, then surely I could do something about it.
Up until that point I thought I might have to leave. Give everything up.
And I was petrified.
Now, if I was creating it, then maybe I didn’t have to lose everything after all.
So I made a decision.
I started working with shadow work more deliberately.
And it did help.
But it still felt like something was missing.
I could see some of the patterns more clearly, but the more hidden and cunning forms were far more elusive.
The subtle thoughts that sound normal. The ones that don’t get questioned.
And this when my own proprietary method began to unfold.
A nuanced method that made me realise that the worst self-sabotage is not in the places you would think to look.
The more I used it on myself, the less my relationship triggers took over. I started feeling more open, more loving with my husband and he started meeting me in the ways I had wanted to be met. Today I am beyond happy with where we are now.
In my business I gained more confidence in my work and started to see real changes in my clients' relationships. It gave me the confidence to niche myself at the higher end of the market and increase my prices to reflect the transformation I was helping my clients achieve.
The results went beyond relationships and many clients started telling me that my method was a game changer for their mental and emotional health.
One client told me 7 years of OCD had gone after 3 sessions.
Another said “it is brilliant", explaining that it gives an added depth and dimension to how you relate to yourself.
I decided, as a result, to get my method trademarked officially and knew it was time to get it out there on a wider scale.
Fast forward to today and The Profound Permission Method® has helped me rebuild on stronger, safer and more magnetic grounds. I knew something felt off about how I was approaching my life and this is the method that uncovers the 'off', makes it seen and felt without dressing it up, bypassing it or explaining it away.
It is a highly nuanced Shadow to Power Work method, which rather than pathologising uncomfortable feelings, helps you work with them in such a way that activates hidden magnetism and supports more aligned action.
We are conditioned to self-sabotage more than we realise in very subtle ways.
All the awareness in the world doesn't help many people because it is that exact mind that is the instigator of the sabotage.
And the biggest problem is it sounds completely normal and rational.
I am now offering a 4 month programme for individuals who want to experience this work for themselves and bring it into their life and work.
This is a journey, at the end of which you receive a licence to use the method in your own private work.
It includes:
Weekly live calls (to work directly with what’s coming up in real time)
Hot seat coaching
The opportunity to practice with peers
Group support
If you would like to find out more about the licensing side of the method and have any questions you can book a complimentary call - link to programme details below.
