19/01/2026
Love Hurts! That’s weird and interesting isn’t it! 😬
Have you heard the phrase “to love someone so much it hurts”?
What’s that all about then 🤔
This post is inspired by two examples this week. One was a lady saying that ‘love can be so painful’.
The second was a direct experience of that in the energy body with someone I was recently helping.
When I asked this person to place their hands on their heart and think about something they love, their family members came to mind. As they tuned in to the love of their family, they felt pain in their heart, intense pressure and then began to cry 😭
Let me explain what this means. Perhaps you’ve had love that seems to hurt your heart too.
Your heart ❤️ is a huge energy vortex. Like a star ⭐️ , it can hold, release and process a lot of energy. However, there are some scenarios that prevent love from flowing and giving the warm soft glow and yumminess that fills your soul.
1. The love is conditional. This often happens with people energy. We love certain aspects of someone, but not all. When we tune in to love them, it can highlight the past ‘wounds’ in our energy matrix as well. The energy of warmth doesn’t flow freely and the jammed up sensation feel painful and even spark tears.
2. The second scenario is that we are out of practice with tuning into our heart energy ON PURPOSE. Even acknowledging its existence and its power. A fully functioning heart energy lights up your environment and influences everything around it. Including being a magnet for great things being attracted to you! It can drive courage, passion and purpose. It’s a magnificent energy vortex.
Both scenarios mean that energy is not flowing, it is bottle necked, stuck and the result can be felt as pain, pressure, tears (as in the sobbing kind) and a desire to withdraw from that rather than step into it.
To practice heart energy it’s often best to think of things in nature. Animals 🐕, plants 🌸, crystals, scenery ☀️🌊etc. We tend not to have an ‘opinion’ about that.
Try this quick heart activation 💖- put your hands over your heart and think about something that’s SO EASY to love. Puppies, kittens, flowers, sunsets and sunrises, rainbows. Choose one thing.
See the thing in your minds eye and let love arise from it. Feel it growing in your heart. Now intend that the feeling grows stronger AND softens through your whole body. Notice it. What does it feel like? Does the energy flow anywhere? Soften it
Intend it grows some more as you think about this thing you love, soften throughout until you feel something very different. Perhaps peaceful, perhaps warmth, perhaps expanded, perhaps connected to all that is. Exalted even.
Tell me what does it feel like to you?
What did you choose to love so unconditionally?
Have you felt the pain or love?
I find the energy body so very fascinating. In this awakening period, it is time for us all to understand our ‘energy’ interactions and be purposeful with it 🤗
Love to all xx