Tiffany Sxefit

29/10/2025

The moment no one was taking away from me. 💗

This was the first time I got to hold my baby girl, Zoffany.
After an emergency C-section, she was rushed to the neonatal ward 6 weeks premature, fighting from day one like her mama❤️‍🩹

It was chaos all around me and when I think back I actually had no family by my side not 1 imagine that?! (Crazy) I didn’t need them but honestly imagine that! So Sad! 😞

Thankfully I had a lot of my trustees who came to visit but it was Just me and her in that moment.

And I’ll say this now no one was ever taking that away from me it’s now looking it at these pictures I need to remember who I am and what I’ve achieved!

And how unbelievable it is that some people have gone out of their way to try and hurt me knowing my story.

No to the pain. No to the silence. No to the people who went out of their way to twist my story or try to break me.

Yes I’ve made mistakes I’m human.
but I’ve grown, I’ve learned, and I’m changing everyday

And through it all, every single move I’ve made has been to protect my daughter love her so much make her a priority and make sure she’s safe. Every. Single. Time.

Look everyone has a story but I’ve had to fight battles I never signed up for, take hits that weren’t mine to carry, and still get back up every time.
Because I refuse to let anyone take away what I’ve built, what I’ve survived, or the love I have for my child.

That moment in the hospital was my reminder what an incredible human I really am

I’m not a victim. I’m not broken.
I’m a woman who’s walked through fire and come out stronger, louder, and more aware of who the hell I am. 🔥

So yes, I’ll protect my peace now. Like I’ve said you all know my story and we all chose our paths my boundaries are very clear!
And I’ll call out the energy that doesn’t serve me.
Because this time my moment, my happiness, my daughter’s safety is ours. And no one’s taking that away again. 💫

23/10/2025

If only you knew what we’ve survived…!

Last week my daughter, Zoffany, had a couple of restless nights.
I went to hang the sheet on the door something I’ve had to do daily to stop my stalker from looking in or making contact.

“Why are you putting that up?” she asked.
Then, without thinking: “Is it for Reece?”
That hit me like a punch.
I smiled and said, “No baby, it’s just to keep the warmth in.”
But she shouldn’t even know fear like that. That’s what I’ve protected her from all her life.

200+ calls to police since 2018. 2 convictions
Ring cameras. Sheets over windows. Isolation.
And somehow, I’m the one called “crazy”?

Your silence says everything trust me!
Friends still serving him coffees.
Old mates still getting tattoos from Zoffany’s dad the man who stole from me while I was pregnant, who lied, who smashed my face in.
You all turned away. You all enabled it.

But yesterday, laws changed one to stop abusers having contact with their kids, and Jenni’s Law, forcing them to be registered. About time.

And then last night parents’ evening.
Her teacher said:

“What can we say? She’s amazing. Kind. Beautiful. Helpful. She even helps care for a disabled child in her year. She’s excelling in reading, spelling, English, maths she’s thriving. Just keep doing what you’re doing.”

That moment hit my heart.
Because behind the closed doors, it’s been survival.
But out there she shines. ✨

I’ve walked through hell and came out stronger.
They weren’t the death of me.
And neither will any of you who tried to make me feel unworthy or unseen.

I did it.
I protected her.
I raised her.
I survived.
And I’m still standing louder, prouder, and stronger than ever. 💪🏽💗

21/10/2025

Looking at these pictures, I hardly recognise the woman in them.
Once again, I was healing from another storm another round of pain caused by people I gave wings to. People I believed in, supported, and lifted when they couldn’t even stand for themselves.

The last 9 years have stripped me of almost everything I built but not my heart, and not my daughter. ❤️

I’ve been through things most wouldn’t survive and still, I rise. But every time I’ve searched for answers, I’ve found only one truth: I was loyal to the wrong people. I gave too much of me to those who would never have done the same.

Some of you turned against someone who would’ve lived for you.
But now, I finally understand I should’ve invested that energy into me.

From here on out… I will. 💫

20/10/2025

We don’t do complicated …! Me and and baby doing what we do best inspire people to be THEIRS

06/10/2025

03/10/2025

This week my daughter, Zoffany, is up for Special Star of the Week 🌟 and I couldn’t be prouder.

Being her mum is the most unreal, most rewarding, and the best job I’ve ever had. I’ve tried to shield her from the ugly in this world, but sometimes you have to show your child the true colours of life both the dark and the light while still leading with strength, compassion, love and kindness.

She’s witnessed her mum heartbroken again and again. She’s seen people drawn to my light only to try and dim my soul, to take my time, my energy, my money. Yet every single time, I’ve shown her that she is my priority. Always.

But let’s not mistake this:

The system in the UK is failing families like ours. Too many cycles I’ve had to break cycles no one person should ever have to break alone. And yet if it means my daughter will make her choices from a place of true understanding, then I know I can never go wrong.

I love every single moment of being a mother from the school runs to the holidays, the homework, the meals, the laughter, the lessons. I love learning with her, growing with her, and giving her the best start in life that I possibly can.

Zoffany, you are my star every single day 💗

28/09/2025

I’m noticing the shift. I had the honour of celebrating at my beautiful friend baby shower and I laughed really laughed. Got to meet and chat to some amazing women I had so much fun. And for the first time I felt completely relaxed. And for the first time in a long time, I didn’t feel chained to fear or unpredictability.

I’m not all the way healed, but I am free enough to start living again. To breathe. To go places. To enjoy moments. 💕 And we had a few now can’t wait to meet baby james you are both going to make amazing parents as already tried and tested

Happy Days!

20/09/2025

For Princess Zoffany my brave, bright baby girl 🫶🏻

Zoffany, you are the small fierce light that keeps me standing.

You have watched me give and give sometimes until pieces of me felt taken and still you meet each day with the wide, honest heart of a child.

I see you when I feed you, when I pull fresh clothes over your head, when we curl up in our clean little home with the dog at our feet. I see you sitting in the front row of my life, learning, laughing, and believing while I work to hold us both safe and whole.

You have watched me carry more than most should have to carry cooking, shopping, paying the bills, building Sxefit dreams, offering kindness to anyone who comes through our door and you know my hands are always busy because my love for you is always busy.

I make mistakes. I have to be firm. I have to protect. But everything I do is so you can grow into your power without fear, so you can learn how to stand tall and lift others as you go.

I want you to remember this always you make me. You are not any of the reason behind any of the things I lost you are proof of what I kept.

Your laugh, your courage, your strength the way you believe in me how you tell me I’m beautiful everyday those are the treasures I guard with every breath.

I will teach you to be kind, to fight for what’s right, and to never let anyone convince you that your worth can be taken. I will show you how to build, to create, to forgive when it frees you and to defend when it saves you.

Here’s a little poem for you
You are morning light that will not hush,
A laugh that turns the dark to dust.
Small hands, big heart you teach me too
How to stand again, because of you.

Zoffany, I am proud of who you are and who you will become. I promise to keep showing up messy, tired, fierce, and loving because you deserve a mother who fights to give you the world. Thank you for being my reason, my miracle, and my greatest lesson in hope.

With all my imperfect, endless love, Queen Mummy ❤️ x

❤️

19/09/2025

✨ Protecting our peace ✨

No matter how much I try to step away and rebuild, I keep getting dragged into narratives that are not mine.

Once again, I find myself having to defend my name against lies and drama that I did not create.

As mothers, our children are our reason to rise above. It’s painful when people try to blame you for the negativity they’re receiving when in reality, it’s a cycle being repeated with several women.

When I heard the latest news, I’ll be honest I felt a wave of relief, hoping it finally meant I could be left alone. But clearly, that’s not the case.

This is not about me anymore. This is about protecting my daughter, my peace, and my future. I refuse to be dragged back into chaos. I choose to move forward. 💕

07/09/2025

20/07/2025

I crowned myself a Queen 👑
Not because the world gave me the title
But because I survived what would’ve broken most.

I’ve been tested by the system.
Betrayed in love.
Let down by humans.
And yet… here I stand.
Unshaken. Unapologetic. Unmatched.

Yes, I’ve had some incredible friends by my side (you know who you are 💖).
But the war? I fought that alone.
I walked through fire without flinching,
And built my throne from the ashes.

I wasn’t handed this crown.
I earned it.

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06/07/2025

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