Set Yourself Free

Set Yourself Free 🧡✨️Helping sensitive people free themselves from stressful patterns & find emotional freedom using EFT & Mindfulness ✨️🧡

Sometimes we hold on to things for far too long.Seasons come and go,Years come and go,Yet we still hold on, unable to le...
11/01/2026

Sometimes we hold on to things for far too long.

Seasons come and go,

Years come and go,

Yet we still hold on, unable to let go.

Maybe it's failing relationships,
Maybe it's jobs/businesses that we don't enjoy,
Maybe it's weight in our bodies,
Maybe it's trauma, wounds or grief,

It's because on some level internally out of awareness,

We feel safer holding on to that pain,

Than letting go of it,

We believe its part of our self identity,
Who we believe we are,

It's a coping mechanism,
A family trait,

We've always done it that way.

Even though the inner flight chaos,
The people pleasing fawn
Or inner shut down freeze hurts us,

It's a familiar feeling, isn't it?

But actually letting go sets you free,
Letting go millimetre by millimetre,

It's not as bad or as scary as your body believes,
It's a journey letting go,
Not a done tomorrow thing,

But from experience of holding on for many years,

I'm so grateful I'm letting go,
Choosing myself now,

Letting go feels like my life energy is switching back on,

My inner joy is returning,
My connection to myself is happening,

So my loves if I can do it,
So can you,

But only if you want to,
Only if your ready to,
And if you are,

I'm here to support you
And your journey
Step by step
Towards inner choosing,

Increasing your peace,
Self love
And creating more joy and safety inside 🍎

09/01/2026

Choose for yourself, what feels good.
Choose what feels aligned with your happiness

How to look after yourself? By looking after your emotions.🩷By sitting with, Listening to,Validating,Acting onWhat your ...
07/01/2026

How to look after yourself?

By looking after your emotions.🩷

By sitting with,
Listening to,
Validating,
Acting on
What your emotions are telling you.

Don't poo poo them,
Or disregard them,
Or ignore them,

You are only hurting yourself.
Abandoning yourself.

Please don't hurt yourself,
You are worth the moon and the stars 🌟

Instead, choose to listen to yourself,
Turn inwards.
Create safety within.
Be kind and nurture yourself too,

When you make this a habit💝
You can depend on yourself
To lift you, help you, feel brave, feel safe inside.
Achieve your hopes and dreams,
Do your every day - easier,

Be the most amazing friend you can ever be to Yourself,

Find your inner adult,
Your inner power,
Self dependancy is awesome.
Connect to your emotional intelligence ❤️

You are 1 in a billion billion and more ya know!
I think you are pretty special 🤗

Now put your hand on your heart and connect to the wonderful you.

Breathe, Observe.. what you feel?💖

06/01/2026

If it feels good - you are aligned with yourself.
If it doesn't feel good - you're out of alignment.

So you feel excited by your New Year goals 🙌Sorting out your weight, fitness, your home, your work, money, everyday life...
03/01/2026

So you feel excited by your New Year goals 🙌

Sorting out your weight, fitness, your home, your work, money, everyday life…

One minute you feel raring to go.
The next, you’ve talked yourself out of it.

The next, you’re berating yourself for not having done it already.

Yet helping others achieve?
That you can do brilliantly 😁

Over-giving.
Saying yes when you mean no.
Abandoning yourself to save others.
Then you feel overwhelmed.
Tired.
Betrayed.

You feel all over the place.
You eat the wrong stuff.
Sleep is erratic.
You’re not exercising.
Blimey Riley — you had such good intentions for January.

So how on earth are you going to achieve One thing, let alone the ten you wrote down?

If this feels like you…

And you know you’ve been through a big loss in your life…

It’s very likely you’re living in survival patterns from that loss — and this is how it plays out day after day.

This is nervous system dysregulation.

Your body feels unsafe and is caught between flight, freeze, and fawn.

It makes everything feel harder than it should be.
Simple things like eating, sleeping, and exercising become chaotic.

Your emotions, thoughts, energy, motivation, even being on time —
feel like a constant rollercoaster and uphill struggle.

Your mind is in the present, trying to set goals, make plans, and move forward.
But your body is still in the past — trying to keep you safe.

And a body that feels unsafe cannot follow commands.

Its energy is depleted or misfiring.

It can’t sustain momentum…
or it crashes into exhaustion.

Sound familiar?

Here’s the good news.
You can take your power back.
You can feel in control again.

By making nervous system regulation your number one goal this year, everything else becomes easier.

Stop abandoning yourself for others.
Turn towards your body.
Turn towards your emotions.
Make yourself the priority.

Listen.
Soften.
Soothe.

Your nervous system needs to feel safe with you again.

Learn how you push yourself away.
Notice when you become triggered or speak unkindly to yourself.

Regulate your amazing nervous system daily.

Make it a habit.
And gently come back home to the you that you still remember being — once more 🌈

✨️Happy New Year 2026 to you✨️Its our time to thrive, Be different, Don't follow the crowd,Don't ever be the same as eve...
31/12/2025

✨️Happy New Year 2026 to you✨️

Its our time to thrive,
Be different,
Don't follow the crowd,
Don't ever be the same as everyone else,
Be unapologetically you,
Self Led,
Connect with that beautiful strong vibrant self,
I see so clearly in you,
I feel it in me,
Just think,
We are still here,
We made it, we did good,
Thank you 2025,
Happy memories
Painful parts,
Great friendships,
Self independence,
We did it!
Im raising a glass to the quiet ones,
The rainbow sheep,
The observers,
The unreflectors,
The square pegs to round holes,
Outside the boxers,
The survivors,
Refused to give up
The won't settlers,
And now we will thrive,
In this new year,
On our own terms
In new ways,
In safety, in love,
Creativity,
Integrity,
Achieving from regulation,
Inner wisdom & healing,
You can,
Go within,
Release the patterns,
Make up new ones,
Give yourself a different life,
Let go completely,
The magic is inside of you,
You are that powerful,
You are safe with you,
You are safe with me,
Emotionally strong,
Unique
Let's go 🚀✨️🚀✨️🚀✨️🚀✨️🚀✨️🚀
Giving you all the hugest of hugs.
Love me and Smarties ###x
💜❤️💙🩷🧡💚💛🎉✨️

30/12/2025

What if consistency felt safe? And the highs and lows mellowed in your emotions?

Do you ever notice yourself going round in the same emotional patterns 🌀 feeling anxious, stressed, or a bit shut down i...
28/12/2025

Do you ever notice yourself going round in the same emotional patterns 🌀 feeling anxious, stressed, or a bit shut down inside?

It's frustrating isn't it?

Its not you, these are often protective responses your body learned to keep you safe.

EFT can gently support the release of these patterns and help you reconnect with calm, confidence, and ease.😌

Your not alone in these feelings.
I can help you feel more balanced and in control again. 🌿

If you would like to find out more, please get in touch with Louise on the details below.

28/12/2025

Listen to yourself.
Repair the relationship with yourself.

🎄Merry Christmas to you all🎄❤️❤️Wishing you lots of enjoyment and happiness, Much love from Me and Smarties ###✨️
25/12/2025

🎄Merry Christmas to you all🎄
❤️❤️
Wishing you lots of enjoyment and happiness,
Much love from Me and Smarties ###✨️

22/12/2025

Listening to all the sounds on our sensory walk today.🌱
Allowing the sound of the main road to be there🚙 whilst choosing to focus on the birdsong more 🐦
Because it gives us happiness 😚

Enjoyed a fantastic first EFT session with a new client,  and her dog Mabel today 😄🐾This session was about  using EFT to...
17/12/2025

Enjoyed a fantastic first EFT session with a new client, and her dog Mabel today 😄🐾

This session was about using EFT to release body tension and increase emotional awareness within the owner.

And releasing Mabels hypertension on walks to make her less reactive and feel safer, less pully. 🩷

When we were mid EFTing in the home the dog who was previously giving attention seeking behaviour completely settled and laid down, Calm as anything 😄💤🖤

Lots of wins on the walk too, I taught sensory mindfulness techniques to help keep the owner in the present moment & improve connection with her dog 🌿

Introduced dog body language, supporting Mabels nervous system to help her feel calmer and taught her owner all about how her own patterns influence Mabels patterns and outcomes.

It was a brilliant first session today!!👏
And apparently Mabel has spent the afternoon and evening zonked asleep on the couch! 💤
Well Done Team Mabel 🩷🐾

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