17/12/2025
As Christmas & New Year Approaches ,
we do an audit on the how the friendships & relationships have been for us & somethings it can be painful to realise we never mattered to a lot of people!
People we’ve helped, reached out to to support when we knew instinctively they needed help!
The people we’ve shown up for, made them feel good about themselves, being kind and thoughtful, .only to discover in this audit they we never factored into their lives unless they needed something.
It’s a real sadness and a touch of shame, that we’d done so much for them only never to be remembered on our birthday, not included in an night out, a dinner a coffee a checkin of any kind …
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It’s painful and sad but it helps us see who they are , it’s who they show you who they are it’s still doesn’t take awaybyour worth unless you tell yourself the wrong story! 📖📕📒
Change the story and let them go , make room for better more loving kind people who are worth your time my friend ❤️❤️🩹🥰