Holistic Midwife UK

16/05/2024

⭐️With our new training officer now settled into her new role we now have a start date for our next round of Doula Training⭐️

⭐️This round of training with be delivered in a evening 5:30pm - 8:30pm and babies in arms are welcome to attend if needed⭐️

⭐️If you have any questions regarding the training please call the office on 01482 497811 or email Clare at cnegus@goodwintrust.org

05/03/2024

Some great advice here ♥️

I feel a strong need to clarify something today ...
safe bedsharing not only saved my sanity, it possibly saved my baby’s life.
I don’t say that lightly but with the full awareness that up until the point I discovered information on how to reduce the risk of shared sleep I was unintentionally putting my baby at great risk multiple times a night, every night.

He could NOT settle in his cot.
Ever.
Even with our intense persistence with sleep training.
He just couldn’t.
But boy could that babe wake.
Every 45 minutes to an hour.
Every night.
Yep, we investigated it all.
Nope, that’s not your average kind of normal, but that was my baby.
And to tend to that child of mine I was up and needed SO many times a night, every night.
And up until 6 months of age, that involved me getting up to tend to him and doing my utmost to adhere to the safe sleep advice I knew ... keep him in his own sleep space. Do not co-sleep. Co-sleeping is dangerous.

No one told me that falling asleep with him on me in the nursing chair WAS co-sleeping...
I wasn’t trying to sleep with him.
I had every intention of putting him in his cot.
But I physically could not stay awake with him.
I could not.
But I didn’t realise the huge risk attached to my efforts trying desperately not to co-sleep.
For 6 months, my baby slept in dangerous situations regularly.

Was I negligent or careless?
No.
I was a desperately tired first-time mum trying to do everything right and adhere to the rules as I knew them.

No one told me about risk reduction strategies for shared sleep.

You can imagine my horror upon realising the danger I had inadvertently been placing my baby in when I found out about preparing a safer shared sleep surface for bedsharing.
I was so angry at myself.
I took it all on.
But it was only later that I came to realise that my anger was misplaced.
How the hell was I to know any different?
Where was the information?
It simply wasn’t available at the time unless you knew to go digging.

And that is not fair.
Not when research shows that over 75% of families will share a sleep surface with their infant in the first three months.
Thankfully, organisations and bodies such as The Lullaby Trust, the Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine and Basis in the UK and the Australian College of Midwives and Australian Breastfeeding Association in Australia have recognised that blanket ‘no co-sleeping’ messaging is deeply flawed and have begun to actively share risk reduction strategies for safer shared sleep.

But it still remains largely taboo.
Any talk of co-sleeping online is often swiftly attacked by those in the anti and it shuts down far too many conversations and sparks fear when education could easily save lives.
The ‘co-sleeping is dangerous’ messaging could have killed my baby.
That’s a fact that still sends shivers down my spine.
But it’s also why I will tirelessly work to ensure that the message gets out there that safer sleep for your baby is about risk reduction for YOUR family. Your baby. Your circumstances.
You.
Not blanket ‘do this, don’t do that’ but access to quality information on what is known and how you can work to reduced risk in your setting.

If you’ve never had the chance to look into how to make shared sleep safer, check these resources out today, because even if you have no intention of ever sharing sleep with your baby, research says that there is a high likelihood that you will, and it would be brilliant if on those occasions you knew how to reduce risks

✨Carly Grubb, 2020
Founder of Little Sparklers, home of The Beyond Sleep Training Project

Precious pic from Safer Shared Sleep photoshoot for Sparklers by the talented Vida Images

05/03/2024

If you’re wanting a home birth or just interested. This is worth a watch.

12/02/2024

Just ♥️

19/01/2024

I had this info on a poster on my table at the Carousel event last night and absolutely loved talking to all of the pregnant mums about it, so many in disbelief at how incredible these findings are.

And these risk reductions are just for those PLANNING a home birth, regardless of where you give birth.

Findings from The Lancet, 2020, which looked at data from over 500,000 women giving birth in the UK.
"Maternal outcomes and birth interventions among women who begin labour intending to give birth at home compared to women of low obstetrical risk who intend to give birth in hospital: A systematic review and meta-analyses"

https://www.thelancet.com/journals/eclinm/article/PIIS2589-5370(20)30063-8/fulltext

21/12/2023

19/12/2023

🎄Have a wander around our beautiful shops - spot all the Elves and you could be in for a treat.

03/12/2023

🎄Lovely Christmassy day with the fam. Sledging on the Westwood. Ginger bread house making competition followed by Mum’s Sunday Dinner ♥️ with Scott Senior & Jo Cartwright

06/11/2023

Come join us for coffee and chat about all things pregnancy, birth and being a new mum. Small friendly group of lovely women just sharing, knowledge and experience. Please pop in for a warm welcome Bemora Wellbeing Hub between 9.30 and 11 tomorrow ♥️