31/12/2025
As the year turns, there is often pressure to become someone new. To fix. To promise. To overhaul.
But maybe this moment is not about reinvention.
Maybe it is about recognition. Of what you carried.
Of what you survived. Of what you learned about yourself, even when it was hard.
You do not need a list of resolutions to be worthy of rest.
You do not need to “do better” to deserve kindness, especially your own.
This can be a quiet pause. A chance to notice what you can gently influence and what you no longer need to fight.
Some things are within your reach:
- how you speak to yourself,
- where you place your energy,
- what you allow to matter.
Other things are not, and letting go of them is not giving up.
It is choosing peace.
Wherever you are right now, however this year has shaped you,
may you meet the next chapter with curiosity rather than pressure, gratitude rather than judgement, and compassion rather than expectation.
And if this time feels lonely, heavy, or uncertain, you are not doing it wrong. You are human. You do not need to start over.
You are allowed to continue. Sometimes it is the bravest thing to do.
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Warm wishes,
Paulina
Lighthouse Therapy