26/11/2025
💜 In loving memory of the two biggest missing pieces of my heart 💜
Today marks 10 years since my Dad left this world, and 5 years since my beautiful niece, Gracie, joined him.
I’ve been awake since 5am trying to find the right words… and none of them feel big enough.
How has 10 years passed without his laughter, his silly jokes, his phone calls, or him sat in my living room reading the paper or watching Star Trek?
He adored his grandkids. He’d be so proud of who they are becoming 🥹
And my Gracie… my heart aches for her every day. I miss her cuddles, her smile, her big heart. She was Scarlett’s best friend for 11 years, Sofia’s first girl cousin, and she absolutely loved her Uncle John. She loved us all.
Losing both Dad and Grace broke me open in a way I never expected. It changed me forever.
But it also became my purpose.
Graceful Healing wouldn’t exist without them 🤍
They are the reason I do this work.
Grief is painful and messy.
It changes who you are.
It steals your breath and breaks you apart…
but it also teaches you to love differently, to honour differently, to keep going.
Because grief is just love with nowhere physical to go 💔
So today I honour them both and all the love they left behind.
💜 Dad, thank you for the 35 years of love and laughter. I miss you every single day.
🩷 Gracie, thank you for the joy, the cuddles and the memories. I will carry you with me forever.
Forever my missing pieces. Forever in my heart 🤍