05/08/2025
My perception on “Twin Flames 🔥”
‘The Divine counterpart to your soul, that when you find them you will Ascend as a soul’
In my view this is complete BS…
Why?
Because you’re already whole, you’re already complete in yourself, your soul and your journey to ascending (which many of you genuinely are not going to do for lifetimes… story for another day)
In a community that a lot of people are seeking identity, understanding of self and having to put “divine meaning” to everything rather than living, connecting and growing.
Most of those hooked on the twin flame meaning are actually IMO struggling with identity. Needing someone to give them meaning and an attachment to relationships needing to be something divine.
When you find a great relationship it will feel divine because you’ve found someone who makes your soul sing! But that isn’t to say it’s a “Twin Flames”.
Most of those who call their relationship a TF… struggle with attachment and idealisation/devaulaisation.
Putting something on a pedestal till it goes sour. Then non-surprisingly it gets the term “karmic flame” or “karmic relationship”. Till they move onto the next person they begin to like & become obsessed with because their attachment style leads them into idealisation again. Needing to learn to regulate their mind, emotion and behaviour when someone they fancy & shows up in their lives.
You don’t need that TF to make you whole, you are whole.
You need to find the wholeness within yourself, regulation of behaviour, mind and emotion when it comes to relationships is a game changer for those struggling with attachment behaviour and abandonment wounds.
