10/09/2025
I have been notified by Facebook that I have some new followers and that it's only polite to recognise you.
I appreciate every single reaction and comment on my posts. I also hope that those who just follow without commenting, find some resonance with some of them and I thank you all.
There's never any expectation to comment or like but it's nice when you do.
So a little bit about me for those who might like to know.
I am a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor registered with the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society.
I also practice Reiki and use guided visualisations to compliment that, or use them on their own.
I also LOVE working with picture cards and objects. We even managed to use them during Lockdown as I held my camera over them and clients would choose and I would hold them up to the camera, while they reflected. (Up yours Covid.)
I'm an Integrative Counsellor which means that I dip into many theories. I am not an expert. I have always said that the clients are the experts. I am trained to walk alongside them as we "Miss Marple the mind."
I was a hairdresser for many years and absolutely loved it.
I believe studies have been done and Hairdressing came out really high on one of the most enjoyable jobs.
13 years ago I turned 40 and fancied a change. I was already Practicing Reiki and had done an online Counselling course which held no recognised qualification but dipped my toe in.
So I went for an interview at the University of East Anglia which is near me and where the training company were based and was successful.
I deliberated on whether to go ahead and bit the bullet.
It was tough and fabulous at the same time. Psychotherapy is so interesting and there is always something new to learn.
My mum was diagnosed with secondary breast cancer after my first year. It was a huge punch to the system as it was incurable and she was given a prognosis of up to 2 years.
So the next 2 years of my training also had the wonderful disease that is cancer in it, watching it eat my mum, taking up room in my brain. I also had a family of my own to support.
But I also believe that because I was eating, sleeping and breathing therapy, it helped me with my grieving process. Every cloud hey?
She died, age 65, 2 weeks before I stopped Hairdressing and about a month before I started my Counselling practice.
In my personal life I love being outdoors. I love the sea and I have to go to the beach on semi regular occasions, to keep me stable.
I just love water. I love paddling on it in my kayak or in our Canadian style canoe.
We are very lucky living so close to the Norfolk Broads, so the river is close.
I really enjoy swimming and am starting to enjoy jogging (I can't call what I do "running")
I also like getting out on my bike. Not as a sport, just as a jolly around.
I love live music and go to see bands from various genres. If they're talented, they're talented π€·ββοΈ
I love reading and have always got a couple of books on the go. I am passionate about supporting our libraries. They are wonderful safe havens.
I am married to a fantastic man who still makes me laugh and laughs at my ditsyness. I make myself laugh too, especially when I blurt out an answer during a quiz we do and although it's completely wrong, I'm, in the moment, convinced it's right.
I have 2 wonderful daughters who I am very proud of, a Grandson who is just the best human in the world and another on the way π
Sometimes when I reflect upon what's happened to me throughout my life, I feel proud of myself for sticking my fingers up at it all and choosing to heal. I am dedicated to working with clients while they heal too.
We really are worth the work.
So that's me in a nutshell without sharing too much.
Please do keep working on understanding generational trauma. What our parents and parents parents and their parents parents lived through, really does trickle down and when we understand, we can find peace in knowing that it's not us.
Have a lovely Wednesday everyone and for those who read to the end (something to do whilst eating your cornflakes) I thank you.
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