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Karen Johnson - Out Of The Corner, Liverpool (2026)

29/04/2026

Never chase sombody for communication if they go silent for days they don’t want to speak to you !!

28/04/2026

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Please come for such a great cause and a perfect day ahead 💜💜

28/04/2026

The silence
When we became quiet to everything they did and said
It was easier , it kept us safe and stoped the arguing
We just agreed again easier that way .

28/04/2026

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27/04/2026

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A narcissist will abandon their own kids, let everyone else clean up the mess, and then play the victim of the very chaos they caused. They’ll disappear when it’s time to show up, then reappear when there’s attention to gain or sympathy to collect. Parenting, for them, isn’t about nurturing or responsibility... it’s about image. It’s about being seen as a “good parent” on social media, at family gatherings, or in conversations that make them look like the hero. But behind closed doors? There’s nothing but absence, excuses, and emotional neglect. Narcissists don’t parent for the sake of their children. They parent for validation. Every smile, every story, every act of “love” is a performance designed to maintain the illusion of goodness. They crave the applause, not the effort. And when real parenting is required ... sleepless nights, emotional patience, sacrifice, or accountability ... they vanish. They leave the heavy lifting to others, while still demanding the spotlight. Yet when the fallout arrives... when the consequences of their choices come knocking... they masterfully rewrite the script. Suddenly, they’re the ones who are “tired,” “unappreciated,” or “misunderstood.” They’ll say things like, “I did my best,” or “Everyone blames me for everything,” as if they’re the victim of circumstances they created. It’s a twisted performance of self-pity meant to draw attention away from the pain they caused and toward the pity they crave. Meanwhile, the ones left behind ... the real caregivers, the children, the exhausted partners or relatives ... are left to deal with the wreckage. The emotional labor, the confusion, the scars... all of it falls on those who stayed. And still, somehow, the narcissist walks away untouched in their own story, convincing others that they’ve been wronged. That’s the thing about narcissists ... they prioritize ego over integrity, appearance over authenticity, manipulation over love. They don’t nurture... they perform. They don’t reflect... they deflect. And they don’t take accountability... they rewrite history. Their version of “love” is transactional. It’s not about care; it’s about control. They’ll use their children as props to appear loving, or as pawns to manipulate others emotionally. One moment, they’re the doting parent on display... the next, they’re gone the second real responsibility demands consistency. Recognizing this pattern is painful, but necessary. Because you can’t save someone who thrives on chaos, and you can’t expect accountability from someone who built their identity on avoiding it. Don’t be fooled by crocodile tears or grand gestures meant to “prove” they care. Watch their actions ... or more often, their absence. That’s where the truth lives. A narcissist doesn’t love in the way real parents do. They mimic it. They mirror it. But when it’s time to put that love into action, they vanish. And the sooner you stop waiting for them to become who they pretend to be, the sooner you can pour that energy into protecting the ones who actually need it ... especially the children who deserve to be raised by love, not performance.