05/03/2026
After four months away from the office, I recently returned part-time as CEO of and attended the London for the second year running as part of the team.
There was something from this year’s experience that I felt was important to reflect on.
The music industry is still largely male-dominated, although it’s encouraging to see more women stepping into management and leadership roles. That progress matters, and I fully support it. But experiences like the ones I had at this year’s event remind me that there is still work to be done.
Over the course of two separate days, I experienced two altercations with male delegates. In both situations, I simply asserted my boundaries and asked for respect of my personal space. What struck me was how quickly that was interpreted as being “rude”, “disruptive”, or an attempt to silence me by telling me to be quiet.
At one point, the situation became quite intimidating. Being isolated and challenged by a group of older, larger male delegates was genuinely frightening.
It reinforced something I believe strongly. Having boundaries and using your voice is not aggression. It’s self-respect.
Too often, when women speak firmly or assertively, it can be mischaracterised as being difficult or confrontational. But boundaries are a fundamental part of psychological safety and mental wellbeing. They protect our sense of self, our confidence, and our ability to feel safe in professional spaces.
Speaking up when someone crosses a line isn’t about creating conflict. It’s about protecting our dignity and ensuring respectful environments for everyone.
If we want industries like music to continue evolving, we must normalise women setting boundaries without being labelled negatively for it.
Personally, my interest in music production and the powerful connection between music and mental health is what first led me to get involved in live events and spaces like ILMC. Looking ahead, I’m also excited to begin introducing music therapy initiatives through our work, something I believe could have a meaningful impact on how we support mental well-being through creative expression 💚