02/12/2025
Mr Grange, from Essex, said he was one of those young people as he joined calls for more targeted support. “Neurodivergence is the thing that makes me, it’s given me all the strengths I’ve had in my life, but it also gave me a lot of negatives because of being undiagnosed as well. At the time I was going missing, I didn’t know what was going on. And that’s what led to the school exclusions, the getting in trouble with police, the in and out of court, detentions, isolations, you name it."
“And it was the biggest catalyst for me going missing, 100 per cent. When I would go missing, it was just taking a break from everything. But even when I’d go missing, my brain wouldn’t shut down, because ADHD goes a thousand miles per hour. I was overthinking, I was nervous, I was thinking, what’s going to happen, what are my family going to think, what are my friends going to think? So it’s a massive issue, and I think it’s one of the things that gets overlooked. We seem to miss neurodivergence.”
It is estimated that more than 15 per cent of people in the UK are neurodivergent, according to NHS Scotland. Before his diagnosis, Mr Grange described struggling with low self-esteem and emotional dysregulation, “hating myself, not understanding myself, thinking I'm bad, I'm naughty, I'm unintelligent, I'm lazy”.
After going missing multiple times between the ages of 13 and 15, he was diagnosed with ADHD at 16 and soon stopped disappearing. “After the diagnosis, I understood myself more, which gave me clarity, and I stopped all the negative things, going missing and dealing [drugs] and changed my life around,” Mr Grange, who has also now been diagnosed with dyspraxia, said.
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/adhd-diagnosis-missing-people-safecall-campaign-b2871176.html
As The Independent launches SafeCall – a new service to help bring missing young people to safety – Tara Cobham speaks to support worker J Grange, who is calling for tailored support for neurodivergent children at risk of disappearing, just as he once was