25/02/2023
Every now and again when placed in challenging and uncomfortable situations we chastise ourselves over something that we should have said better or physically have reacted more effectively at. Hindsight is a glorious thing.
Instead most of us kick ourselves for not being perfect in situations that made us feel awkward. That made us retreat into a childlike persona because we did not have the social skills or prowess to know how to dominate the situation by taking control of it in a succinct way. We can only do what our life experience has provided us with. We can only perform in life that is true to us.
Yes, some of us may have an alter ego that rises to the fore from embarrassing, cringe worthy or prejudicial situations. Our inner shield acting as a guardian to protecting our inner child. Battling those challenging and uncomfortable situations can for some, well up tears behind the eyes. As I said before, we can only do what is within us to do from our life experiences. We are not Xena, Warrior Princess. We are not a mutant ninja. We are what we are and are loved for that by some, whilst being hated for it by others. Do the others matter? Professionally. Socially. Personally. Well, that answer is purely up to you and the experiences that you have been put through.
One thing is for sure, when those challenging and uncomfortable situations happen and lead us to chastise ourselves, we need to spend time leading ourselves back into love with ourselves. Deeply in love with ourselves. We need to need ourselves again. We need to let our heart speak to us. We need to wrap ourselves in our own miracles. We need to feel our Spirit again.
We have gotten this far and survived. We can survive again through each life experience and surround ourselves with kindred souls.
It is fine to want to speak to someone or email someone that you feel safe with about your life stumbles. To show up to that significant other without a stitch of make-up on, with hair that has decided to go rogue, with tears streaming down your face, with anger that you cannot let go off. It is fine. The point is, is that you have reached out to that significant other who loves you for you and wants the best for you on your life journey. Their interest is not on the external, it is on the internal.
So this is why I lead myself into love. I am not infallible. I make mistakes. I cringe at some things that I have done in the past. Yet, I always lead myself back into love with Self. Each time it delivers new emotions that overflow with appreciation, fondness and devotion of me and my growth. Professionally. Socially. Personally.
For that reason, when you find yourself looking back at life and chastising yourself, or, find aspects of your past challenging to come to terms with, be with kindred spirits that can help you lead yourself into love with your own Self. As you cannot live without YOU being present on your life journey. This is what RISE Life is expert at. Life experience. Realism. Coming to terms with challenging and uncomfortable situations that bubble up from the past. Kindred spirits.
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