14/04/2026
Sometimes we feel that our healing is about the big experiences, thw big releases we often see on social media. It’s makes us wonder why it’s not happening to us or whether we are doing it all wrong.
As a holistic therapist who sees people healing and growing everyday, I want to say you are not doing it wrong. Healing happens when our body feels safe and this can take time. So it’s not about the big releases, it’s actually more about the subtle changes that happen over time. It’s about how your awareness grows and sometimes it will lead to a more profound moment. But that’s only part of the greater picture.
Some of what we see on social media can be performative, it can also be forcing a reaction when the body is not ready (often leading to re-traumatization), so more is not always better.
Your body and your inner wisdom will always be your guide on the journey. So chances are you are not doing it wrong..it’s moving at exactly the right pace 🙏🏽🙏🏽