12/01/2026
Youāre not really chasing the weight anymore.
Youāve locked into what works.
Or maybe the weightās already come off.
And now?
Youāre chasing the feeling you thought the weight loss would bring.
Peace.
Trust.
A bit of breathing room between you and the food.
But even with progress, maybe even a smaller body, it still feels⦠fragile.
Like one skipped walk or one dinner out could unravel it all.
Not because youāre doing anything wrong.
But because youāre still trying to becomeā¦
instead of realisingā¦you already are āØ
And this - right here - is the shift.
From managing outcomes
to embodying identity.
From proving
to ābeingā.
The woman who no longer needs to control everything in order to feel at home in her body.
Thatās the kind of weight that stays steady or stays off.
Not because of how hard she works to lose/maintain it
but because of who sheās become while living inside it.
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Iām curious when did you start realising it wasnāt about weight anymore?
Or are you still in that question now?