Springtides Infant Feeding - Alice Privett IBCLC

Springtides Infant Feeding - Alice Privett IBCLC Lactation Consultant offering home visits & online consultations in London and the South East.

Sing to your baby!Singing stimulate the vagus nerve, which promotes oxytocin release!Oxytocin promotes the let down of m...
27/01/2025

Sing to your baby!

Singing stimulate the vagus nerve, which promotes oxytocin release!

Oxytocin promotes the let down of milk, bonding, and enhances mood and trust- amongst other benefits

Studies show that parents feel more bonded to their child after singing, and infant’s crying episodes have been shown to be reduced when they are sung to more

I am also a professional singer, so I have a specific interest in this topic(!). Parents (in both a musical and a parental context) often tell me they are ‘tuneless’ or ‘tone deaf’ - (which is never true by the way, they’ve often just not been given confidence in their innate ability). However, EVEN if you have no confidence in your singing voice, your baby thinks it is the most enchanting sound in the world.

We often talk about the benefits to your baby - language development, bonding, soothing - but not so often for the parent. We are a culture who don’t use our voices very much - so try it out! You may be amazed by the impact it has on your relationship and your mood.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1871519217300367

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2059204317745746 this study short term benefits - the authors indicate the limitations of the study meaning that they don’t show longer term benefits, and authors recommend further research based on their positive findings

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Study: Professor Amy Brown’s study from 2015 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25973527/There is so much nonsense we are f...
24/10/2024

Study: Professor Amy Brown’s study from 2015 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25973527/

There is so much nonsense we are fed about infant sleep - how much babies should be sleeping and when; how feeding certain amounts of milk or formula, or solid foods, might affect their sleep - and especially that once they hit the magic 6 months, they should be ‘sleeping through!’. We are bombarded by this message from all angles, so no surprise when we worry our babies are ‘broken’ or we’re doing something to cause them to wake more frequently. (Spoiler: nope! They’re just going through massive developmental changes, getting teeth, probably having colds, and experiencing the first pangs of separation anxiety- so they want to connect with us more at night).
However, at this age frequent waking along with their increased activity in the day can start to become overwhelming at times.

Some ideas to get some more rest:
😴Contact napping - at home on the sofa. Close your eyes if you can, listen to a podcast or a meditation guide.
🛏️Try getting to bed earlier if possible- your babe will sleep deeper in the hours before midnight
👯Family members/ friends - anyone you feel comfortable asking to come and make you dinner, play with your baby while you have a nap, take them out for a walk, vacuum… you get the idea
🕺Try and fit in at least one small activity a day that makes YOU feel good - even for 10 minutes.

If you’re struggling but have no-one to speak to, the breastfeeding helpline is open for exactly this purpose 🌷

See Lyndsey Hookway and Second Star to the Right for more information on normal infant sleep

… when you unintentionally make your tie dye project a work shirt…
28/08/2024

… when you unintentionally make your tie dye project a work shirt…

If ever a roll eye/ rage emoji were called for...This was said to a mum regarding her 18 month old who is a gorgeous, th...
16/06/2024

If ever a roll eye/ rage emoji were called for...

This was said to a mum regarding her 18 month old who is a gorgeous, thriving toddler.
There are so many things to unpick around why anyone might say this - but I won’t do that here. I just want to do a shout out for that parent who (despite being really understandably upset) knew that she was doing the thing that worked best for her and her child, and carried on doing it despite the criticism.
Parents need support, and they need recognition and respect for their choices. Comments like this, whether throwaway or predetermined, can undermine us in the most profound of ways.

Imagine if, this person who was having a tough day babysitting had said,
“I’m struggling to settle your daughter when I look after her. Do you have any tips that might help me?” (And they could have thrown in a ‘what a wonderful parent you are”, too 😀).

What are your best tips for settling a breastfeeding toddler when a ni**le isn't available?!

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Let’s all trust our babies more! Humans are ventral feeders: this means we are programmed to feed on our tummies. In fac...
16/06/2024

Let’s all trust our babies more!

Humans are ventral feeders: this means we are programmed to feed on our tummies. In fact all of our movement is developed this way - strengthening our neck muscles so we can crawl, sit up, and eventually walk, as well as development of neurological and sensory integration. (This is why ‘tummy time’ is so important when we live in a society where we tend to put babies down a lot on their backs rather than carrying them).

Many people find their first feed after birth worked in skin to skin, in a laid back position. Then we get home, dress our babies, sit up to feed, (often because we’re told to or its what we've seen on TV) and our instinctive behaviours -both parent and child - can get muddled!

So, if you’ve any issues with feeding, try going back to basics first - get naked! Get your baby naked! (Maybe leave a nappy on...😂).
Lie back, get comfy. Place your baby on you, tummy in full contact with your body, cheek on your breast - and see what happens….

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As an adult, what activities or skills went perfectly first time for you?Cooking?Driving?S*x?If you are surrounded by ot...
16/06/2024

As an adult, what activities or skills went perfectly first time for you?

Cooking?
Driving?
S*x?

If you are surrounded by other people doing these activities (maybe not the last one 😂) you probably would have a good head start, and maybe it would go perfectly first time. However, most of us in the UK aren’t surrounded by people breastfeeding in close quarters.

So maybe we should give ourselves some grace, and remember it is a learned activity, as well as a biologically normal one.

…(Just like s*x 😄)

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Breast/chestfeeding parents have heard this phrase so often it has literally become a meme. So it is worth repeating…Bre...
30/01/2024

Breast/chestfeeding parents have heard this phrase so often it has literally become a meme.

So it is worth repeating…

Breastfeeding is not just a meal!

It is a conversation between two minds and bodies.
Amazing things that are happening whilst your baby is ‘just sucking for comfort’:

-Your milk supply is being stimulated
-The parasympathetic nervous system is calmed for both mum and baby
-Vagal regulation is improved: this helps a baby digest their food, and supports social engagement and self regulation skills (ie calming themselves down, eventually, when they’re a lot older!)
-Helps reduce pain and discomfort for baby and parent
-Promotes bonding and trust through oxytocin release
-Develops your baby’s coordination
-Supports normal bone and dental development

Not to mention, just being next to your heart beat is incredibly calming for your baby, and they’ve been suckling in utero from around 16 weeks gestation.
They’re programmed to continue!

Yes, we want an efficient latch for milk transfer. And to be able to sustain a little being attached to your ni**les for multiple hours a day, things have to be comfortable. If it’s not - seek support ❤️


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Colic and Reflux are terms thrown about so often with babies, and both are umbrellaterms with a huge variety of potentia...
11/01/2024

Colic and Reflux are terms thrown about so often with babies, and both are umbrella
terms with a huge variety of potential causes. This can be highly confusing!

If you feel your baby has symptoms of colic or reflux, it’s important to get a feeding assessment with a trained professional to help understand what is going on. There might be some tips that can be implemented to improve symptoms; occasionally there can be something more afoot.

See this brilliant article for common contributors to reflux/ colicky behaviour:

https://www.analyticalarmadillo.co.uk/2010/07/reflux.html

And this one…

https://shelbanks.co.uk/managing-baby-colicky-symptoms

https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng1/ifp/chapter/Reflux-in-babies

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Experiencing a Nursing Strike?This can happen, is surprisingly common at various ages and stages (even if very brief) an...
01/01/2024

Experiencing a Nursing Strike?

This can happen, is surprisingly common at various ages and stages (even if very brief) and not often spoken about - so I often receive calls from parents who are wondering if their infant/toddler has just had enough of breastfeeding!
If breast/chestfeeding has been going well up until now and your little one is suddenly completely refusing the breast, and they are under 2 years old, it is *unlikely* that your babe/toddler is weaning themselves (anthropologists believe that natural term weaning occurs anywhere between 2-7 yrs).

Let’s look at what else could be happening. Illness? Teeth? Distraction? Maybe a stressful incident whilst feeding?

The following suggestions may be helpful:

*Lots of skin to skin time
*Baths together with your baby plonked (gently!) on top of you tummy down
*Baby wearing in a sling
* ‘Laid back’ positions
*Deep breathing
*No pressure to feed but LOTS of access to your breasts (maybe a ‘baby moon’ in bed together)

Get the oxytocin flowing by whatever means necessary (cuddles, chocolate, your favourite music… or whatever else works for you, no judgement here…!)

Each time your babe refuses a feed, let’s buy some time to find your way back to wherever it is you want to be:
Feed your baby, protect your milk supply, and take care of your breast health:
Paced, responsive feeding by bottle or cup; expressing for any feeds they miss to keep your supply up/ help avoid engorgement.

Reach out for support. This can be really difficult emotionally. And remember that your baby loves you more than anyone else in the world.

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There are so many places to reach out for online and in person feeding support and information- both free and private- a...
01/01/2024

There are so many places to reach out for online and in person feeding support and information- both free and private- all over the UK.

I’ve noticed, speaking to parents in person and on the National Breastfeeding Helpline, that many don’t realise they exist! A quick google for your area can be helpful if you’re looking for a group; midwives and health visitors should also have a list.
We’re always thrilled when people turn up to these groups before their baby is born to seek evidence based information!

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