Aligned with Love - Creating and Transforming Intimate Relationships

Aligned with Love - Creating and Transforming Intimate Relationships We are a married couple💞, relationships experts❤️‍🩹, business partners😎 and best friends🥰

21/12/2025

There comes a moment when your soul gets tired of proving, waiting, explaining, and shrinking just to be seen.
And that moment isn’t weakness—it’s clarity.

Love that’s meant for you doesn’t need convincing.
It doesn’t leave you questioning your value or negotiating for consistency.
It meets you where you are, steadies your nervous system, and reminds you that you’re safe to be fully yourself.

When you stop chasing what doesn’t choose you back, something powerful happens:
You return to yourself.
You raise your standards.
And you create space for the kind of love that recognizes you without being asked.

Choosing yourself isn’t pushing love away—
it’s aligning with the love that’s already looking for you.

If this spoke to your heart, send me a DM 🤍 Let’s talk about choosing yourself without guilt.





20/12/2025

There’s a quiet strength in choosing peace over answers.
In no longer chasing explanations that keep you tied to the past.

When you stop waiting, something opens.
Your energy returns.
Your clarity sharpens.
Your life moves forward again.

If this season feels heavy and familiar, DM me 🤍
You’re not meant to carry it alone.

19/12/2025

✨ Stop shrinking yourself for love. The right love doesn’t dim your light, it magnifies it. It meets you fully, without asking you to compromise your soul. You are already enough—never settle for less than what you deserve.

💌 If this speaks to you, share it with someone who needs the reminder today. 📩 And if you’re ready to talk about stepping into your worth—DM me.

Sometimes the worst pain isn’t being ignored—it’s feeling invisible.Even when your partner is in the same room, you feel...
18/12/2025

Sometimes the worst pain isn’t being ignored—it’s feeling invisible.

Even when your partner is in the same room, you feel unseen, unheard, or unimportant. This usually happens when emotions go unspoken or fear prevents connection.
Signs you feel invisible:
1️⃣ Feeling lonely even when together
2️⃣ Avoiding vulnerability
3️⃣ Feeling dismissed or ignored
Try tonight:
✔️ Share one small, truthful feeling with your partner
✔️ Speak slowly and calmly
✔️ Notice the subtle shift in energy when you speak your truth
Couples practicing this in Intensive couples therapy often feel profoundly seen and heard.
✨ Couples practicing this in Intensive couples therapy often feel profoundly seen and heard.
If this hits home, save this for tonight and drop a ‘👀’ so others know they’re not alone.

If you want a private practice to start feeling seen, DM me “SEEN” and I’ll send it to you.

17/12/2025

There are seasons where your world gets quieter…
Not because you’re losing people —
but because you’re becoming her.

You start releasing old friendships, old patterns, old loves that once felt familiar but no longer feel aligned.
It can feel lonely — soft, tender, confusing —
but this isn’t rejection.
This is refinement.

You’re being prepared for connections that can meet you where you’re going, not where you’ve been.
Stay gentle with yourself.
Stay open.
Your people, your energy, your alignment are already finding you.

✨ Save this if you’re in a becoming season.
Comment “aligned” if you’re choosing growth with grace. ✨




Some love doesn’t hurt because it’s passionate.It hurts because it’s unsafe.When you start shrinking your truth, over-ex...
17/12/2025

Some love doesn’t hurt because it’s passionate.
It hurts because it’s unsafe.

When you start shrinking your truth, over-explaining your needs, or carrying the relationship alone, that’s not love asking you to grow — that’s a warning asking you to pause. Consistency matters. Presence matters. Being chosen without having to beg matters.

That quiet voice inside you? It’s not fear. It’s wisdom.
And it’s not trying to ruin your relationship — it’s trying to protect you.

Choose peace over potential.
Choose clarity over chaos.
Choose yourself — every single time.

17/12/2025

When you and your partner consistently misunderstand each other, it can be exhausting. You end up feeling wrong or making your partner feel wrong. It doesn't have to be this way! We're hosting a free online event to talk about relationship challenges, especially when working together. Click for details!

You can’t rush someone’s readiness, beautiful soul💛 You can only hold the door open with compassion — not control. True ...
16/12/2025

You can’t rush someone’s readiness, beautiful soul💛 You can only hold the door open with compassion — not control. True leadership in love begins when you stop trying to convince and start choosing to embody.
When you soften instead of push, your energy shifts. Suddenly, your partner doesn’t feel the pressure to change — they feel the safety to expand.
This is the work: creating emotional safety through your own emotional maturity. When you model calm presence, grounded self-awareness, and consistent authenticity… your partner senses that it’s safe to meet you there🌿
Compassion doesn’t mean you settle for less. It means you lead with love while staying rooted in truth. That balance — that grace — is where transformation begins.
✨ Be the energy that invites, not the one that demands.
With love,
Rebeca Perea 🥰

15/12/2025

✨ You don’t push love away because you don’t want it—you push it away because once, it hurt. Healing begins the moment you notice the pattern and choose differently. Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the doorway to thriving. 🌱💫

📩 Ready to break free from old cycles? Book your FREE 15‑minute consultation today and take the first step toward conscious love.

Seeing stories like this reminds us why we do what we do. When two people choose to grow instead of give up — to listen,...
15/12/2025

Seeing stories like this reminds us why we do what we do.
When two people choose to grow instead of give up — to listen, to understand, to reconnect — everything changes✨
It’s never too late to rebuild trust, deepen communication, and rediscover what brought you together in the first place🌿
If you’re ready to take that step, we’d love to help💫
👉 Begin your journey with us https://alignedwithlove.net/

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Our journey to Aligned with Love!

Rebeca´s: after so many years looking for love in the wrong ways, repeated failing relationships and a string of toxic boyfriends I did my personal work with my first course of Hypnotherapy and after a year and a half learning to love myself and loving to be my best friend and my best company I met Matt and I am so happy that I want to help as many people as possible to manifest their perfect partner and also to transform their relationships because I´ve realised that some of the boyfriends that I had were very nice but I made lots of mistakes and I left them because I didn´t know the secrets that I now know. And particularly, I want to create and heal as many couples as possible so that the future generations of little babies that come to this world grow safe and protected in a really lovely and healthy environment and have an amazing and thriving life without falling in many horrible traps that life can unfold when you grow in a love based on conditional love.

Matt´s: Having seen personally how the quality of our relationships impact *massively* on the quality of our whole experience, and especially having experienced some great contrasts in this area, I’ve been able to make some distinctions. I spent a long time in a relationship that even though I would have called it a ‘loving relationship’ at the time, I came to see that a lot of the dynamics were dysfunctional and borderline abusive. I can now see that the compromises I made to ‘keep the show on the road’, caused much more harm than good, not only to myself in terms of my self-respect but to others around me too who picked up on what was happening. A big lesson for me has been judging when to let go, and I can see that even though you might say I was ‘spiritual’ in some ways, there was lot of ego holding onto things too. A fantastic relationship shouldn’t be hard work, and in fact if it’s hard work that’s probably a sign that you are forcing something. That’s not to say that we can’t take action but that this needs to come from a point of connection and deep acceptance of who we are. Once we are aligned in that way, we will naturally see the right course of action to either heal or improve an existing relationship, or to find one that gives you the joy and connection you are looking for. My personal development work helped massively in finding that clarity, as well as letting me connect with some wonderful people, including the angel that is Rebeca!