25/11/2025
Why do we have to look after families with a new baby? Why?
After all, having children is a choice.
I understand that thought. I had it too.
But when a baby arrives, something profound happens: two individuals disappear.
Not literally, but in the quiet, consuming way that caring for a newborn demands.
Your time, your sleep, your sense of self — everything dissolves into this tiny, fragile being who needs you every moment.
For a while, maybe a decade or more, you live in service of another life.
Parenthood humbles you. It stretches the limits of what you thought love was.
It reminds you how much it takes — love, nourishment, presence — not just to raise a child, but to sustain the adults becoming parents.
That’s why the village still matters.
Because the people who once were two individuals are now a family, learning to exist again — together, differently. 💛
If this made you pause or reflect, send me a “Why” in the comments or a DM.
I’ll share the story of my two postnatal experiences — one with support, and one without.