30/10/2025
When someone avoids a task, it’s not always about refusal, sometimes it’s anxiety.
The National Autistic Society explains that some autistic adults experience demand avoidance feeling overwhelmed or anxious when asked to do something.
It’s not stubbornness or lack of motivation. It’s often about needing control, predictability, or time to process.
💙 Support can include:
- Offering choice
- Reducing pressure
- Using gentle, calm communication
Small changes can make big differences.
https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour/demand-avoidance
Resistance to demands is a characteristic experienced by and observed in some autistic people. It is sometimes labelled as Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), but there is debate about the evidence for and usefulness of this label.