13/02/2026
Was this the UK's longest marriage? Read John and Harriet's story, and their advice for a long and loving marriage 💖
The year is 1893. 18-year-old farmhand John Orton and 16-year-old farmer’s daughter Harriet Harris meet at a church hall party in the Rutland countryside. Perhaps they share a dance or two by candlelight or get to know each other over a cup of tea. Whatever it was, it sparked something neither of them could have imagined: the start of a love story that would endure for 88 years.
Fast forward seven years, and the childhood sweethearts marry on 9 July 1900. Though Queen Victoria is on the throne, the world is on the brink of a new century, and it’s just the beginning of John and Harriet’s married life. The couple had welcomed one child, Winnie, born in Medbourne in late 1902, and by 1905 they settled into a family home in Great Gidding, Cambridgeshire.
Their marriage is a partnership in all aspects of the word. John has many talents, working as a carpenter and wheelwright throughout his life, and Harriet helps him in the blacksmith forge, welding rims to cartwheels. And they don’t neglect their farming roots either, helping to rear sheep until their retirement.
By Valentine’s Day in 1980, their love story makes headline news. They appear on local television to celebrate their upcoming 80th anniversary, thought at the time to be Britain’s oldest and longest married couple alive. They make it into the Guinness Book of Records and receive special congratulations from Queen Victoria’s great-great-granddaughter, Elizabeth II.
Throughout all those years, John and Harriet never sought fame – just a quiet life of mutual love and respect.
Their advice for a long life and loving marriage?
💘 “Carry on courting your sweetheart for the rest of your life, just as you did before you took them to the altar.”
💘 “You’ll have ups and downs, but the best part is the making up and that is great fun.”
💘 “Treat everyone in the way you like to be treated.”
💘 “Bring your partner flowers and read to them every day.”
💘 “Believe your partner is the finest person in the world.”
Harriet died in 1981 aged 103, while John lived to earn the title of Britain’s oldest man, dying in 1984 aged 108. Their story, built from simple beginnings, remains a testament to what happens when two people walk through life side by side: never perfect, but always real, and always enduring.