08/01/2025
This week,I am working on planning marketing, working hours, my childโs schedule, weekly menus... you name it.
To me, planning doesnโt meant Iโll write my days down all at once then follow them ( even because that kind of behaviour for me, normally leads to frustration because life isnโt black and white and sticking with a rigid long term plan is often impossible )
In marketing, for example, I am going back to basics, thinking of the tools I used last year. Did it work for me? Did I enjoy using them? Is there anything Iโd like/need to do differently?
In all of that, I also found time to think about the self-care I currently have in place.
Working parents often struggle to find time for themselvesโฆself-employed parents almost always find themselves working crazy hours and eventually fall into the vicious cycle of feeling too tired to do anything for themselves even though they know self-care is more likely to keep them ticking for longer.
As a therapist, I know how dangerous that trap is, which is why, over the years, I have put a number of things into place to help me stick with my โme timeโ.
The most important action for me really was to set some strict boundaries. When you are the CEO and the receptionist at the same time, it can be hard to ignore a call that comes in after hours - even though in my experience, calls after 9pm are not after the kind of service I offer ( I might or might not tell that story one day)
So I got strict with myself, set some firm working hours and auto replies to let people know what those were. I also got myself a personal phone number so that I could โswitch work offโ when I was meant to be off duty.
I really feel that I started something,and following that , I found I had my free time to go to the gym, take the dog out a,d even meditate if I needed to.
All of that started with a very small plan that highlighted my need for hours where I would not worry about my working phone or checking the businessโs inbox.
And I am glad to say 2024 was the healthiest I felt in a long time...plus I had a very nice Christmas, too ๐