02/05/2026
💰 What Is Financial Abuse?
Financial abuse is a form of control where a person limits another’s ability to access, earn, or manage money. It’s one of the most powerful, and invisible, tools an abuser can use, because it strips away a survivor’s independence and ability to move on safely.
It can look like:
*Withholding or delaying child maintenance to create instability
*Refusing to pay joint bills or debts, leaving their ex to cope alone
*Running up shared debts out of spite or to damage their ex’s credit
*Blocking access to financial documents or important accounts
*Controlling how money for the children is spent as a way to retain power
*Dragging out financial settlements to drain time, money, and emotional energy
Even after separation, many survivors continue to experience financial abuse, making it incredibly hard to rebuild their lives.
💜 At Mums In Need, we help mums take back control, offering support to manage finances, access counselling, boost wellbeing, and connect with others who understand.
👉 While our waiting list is currently closed, we’ve put together a collection of financial support resources that might help:
🔗 www.mumsinneed.com/support-info/resources-other-support/financial-support