28/12/2025
A follow up for all of you who sent me names for tonight's remembrance ceremony. Please see photos and message below from the ceremony this evening.
Feeling blessed at sharing space with the grief and remembrance of others. There was so many names in the bowl and so much heat and love in the room from the light they all gifted!
A little something for each of you. An invitation to take from the words what feels right for you and to leave whatever does notโจ๐โจ๐โจ๐โจ
To all those who offered names to the bowl of love, know that grief and love are two parts of the story shared by each of you.
There is space for grief but there is also space for life. It is important to remember this on your journey ahead.
I (we) started the ceremony today with a song (Imelda May โ Home) and a question โWhat is Love?...โ
What indeed is love?...it occurs to me that it is simply all that you each gifted today in the names of those you sent. It is the love you each still feel that allows your loved ones to live on through each of you.
Love is not only the question, it is also the answer.
Love. Dearly, fiercely, frankly, honestly, compassionately, courageously. It does not matter how it only matters that you do. This is how you honour the memory of those you miss dearly. You love with all that you are able to give.
It is always enough.
May you each feel the love of those no longer with you supporting you to move forward.
Moving forward does not mean forgetting, it means honouring and remembering that love is the key to all the doors ahead.
May you each remember how much you are loved and the difference you make just by being you.
Be you.
Be love.
The world needs more of that!
And when you feel lost, overwhelmed or as if it is all too much. Take a moment, a breath and reach into your heart and hold on to the love you are offered this night. Sit in community with others. Ask for help. There is healing to be found in those spaces. There is healing to be found in love!
Holding each of you in love and hoping that as you move forward, the journey gifts you all you need to help you heal and feel the love you so very much deserve.
Your light still shines! ๐โจ๐๐
Kind blessings,
Ashleigh