12/04/2026
There is so much pressure out there these days. Some of it is good, challenging traditional views, showing what is possible. But it is still pressure - to be DOING, to get results, to have the perfect relationship...
I try to live by the saying 'do your best until you know better, then do better'
But that HAS to be backed up with actively striving to know better, through thorough scientific research - not just what someone says on TicToc! Otherwise it can easily become an excuse.
I haven't always got it right with Tilly, I'm the first to put my hands up to that, but that has usually been when I have felt the pressure of society to do things/be a certain way. When I am true to my fundermental beliefs about the relationship I want to have with her (barefoot, bitless, consenting, mutual, positive, fun ...) and often when I actually do less, thats when those magic moments and steps forward happen.
Relax,
Be true to yourself and your horse,
Be your horse's voice,
Be the guardian you would want for yourself, .. no excuses π
Pic of my beautiful girl on our last outing, part ridden, part in hand, taking a moment to stop and admire the view together π₯°