25/07/2025
Have you thought about it yet?
One of my recent massage sessions incorporated time to sit and talk, to support a conversation that explored Plan A, Plan B and Plan C… as guided by .hill ‘s Positive Birth book… but also the many conversations I have had with women, people and partners as a therapist, community and birth centre, and regarding emotional wellbeing as a specialist perinatal mental health midwife.
Thinking about what is important to you and your partner, and as a midwife supporting choices, IS IMPORTANT!
Your plan A maybe a waterbirth, it maybe an elective caesarean, but what if the pool is busy in the birth centre, what are your other options until it’s free (perhaps making the delivery suite space feel more like a birth centre room) or what happens if your contracting before your planned section? (Do you want to go with the flow, do you need to feel confident that your section will be brought forward? How will you manage? Breath work, distraction, touch techniques?)
These open conversations of potential different paths, and your preferences for each one, that may include visualisations, mind body techniques, a particular phrase, term or affirmation for each one, enables you to feel safer, calm, in control and ready. Together.
Are you ready to think about your plan A, B, C, …. H, I, J?!!!