Waves of Wisdom

Waves of Wisdom ✨Integrative Therapeutic Support for all ages (3+) in North Wales | Psychotrauma Counsellor | Qualified in EMDR, CBT & other therapies✨

23/02/2026

We’ve written to the UK government about our concerns with AI and mental health.

We think AI platforms and mental health services can work safely together, but we need to take steps to get there. We need to make mental health support quicker and easier to access so people are not needing to fill the gap with AI tools in times of need.

There is an urgent need for stronger safeguards, and shared accountability.

Read our article in The Guardian to see more details about our letter: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/feb/20/mind-mental-health-expert-google-ai-summaries

💜 Breaking the Myths: Eating Disorders Awareness Week 2026🍽️ Eating disorders don’t have a “look,” a size, or a stereoty...
23/02/2026

💜 Breaking the Myths: Eating Disorders Awareness Week 2026

🍽️ Eating disorders don’t have a “look,” a size, or a stereotype—and they affect people of all genders, ages, and backgrounds. During Eating Disorders Awareness Week, I am holding space for honesty, compassion, and understanding.

✨ Recovery is possible, help is available, and no one deserves to struggle in silence. Let’s challenge harmful myths, speak more kindly to ourselves and others, and remind anyone who’s struggling that they are not alone—and they are worthy of support, care, and healing.

✨ Myth vs Fact ✨

Myth: Eating disorders are about vanity or a desire to be thin.
Fact: They are complex mental illnesses that often involve emotional distress, anxiety, trauma and coping mechanisms — and recovery takes real support and care. 

Myth: Only girls or very thin people have eating disorders.
Fact: People of all genders, ages, body sizes, races, and backgrounds can be affected. Many with eating disorders don’t appear underweight at all. 

Myth: Families cause eating disorders.
Fact: No one “causes” these illnesses — genetics, environment, stressors, and societal pressures all play a role. Families can be powerful parts of recovery, not the blame. 

Myth: Eating disorders aren’t serious.
Fact: They are life‑threatening if untreated and deserve the same compassion and attention as any other mental health condition. 

💬 Why this matters: Every body deserves care, understanding, and support — not stigma or silence. If you’re struggling or know someone who is, reach out — recovery is possible.

🧠 Emotional Health Matters💛 Emotional Health Week is a chance to pause, check in with ourselves, and remember that our f...
19/02/2026

🧠 Emotional Health Matters

💛 Emotional Health Week is a chance to pause, check in with ourselves, and remember that our feelings matter.

😓 Life can be busy, overwhelming, and sometimes heavy — and that’s okay.

🏵️ Emotional health is about noticing how we’re really doing, being kind to ourselves on hard days, and knowing it’s okay to ask for help when we need it.

🌱 This week is a reminder to talk, listen, rest, and support one another, because looking after our emotional wellbeing helps us feel more balanced, connected, and able to cope with whatever comes our way.





🌊 What If You’re Closer Than You Think?⚓️ What if things actually work out — not by accident, but because you kept going...
13/02/2026

🌊 What If You’re Closer Than You Think?

⚓️ What if things actually work out — not by accident, but because you kept going when it was hard, chose hope when it felt easier to give up, and believed in possibilities you couldn’t yet see?

🪸 What if the delays were preparing you, the mistakes were guiding you, and the small steps you’re taking right now are leading somewhere better than you imagined?

🐚 Sometimes hope isn’t loud or certain — it’s just the quiet decision to try again tomorrow, trusting that, in time, things can fall into place.

🌅 So let me ask you this… What if the best is still on its way?

💛 Children’s Mental Health Week 💛This week we shine a spotlight on the emotional wellbeing of children and young people ...
09/02/2026

💛 Children’s Mental Health Week 💛

This week we shine a spotlight on the emotional wellbeing of children and young people — because mental health matters just as much as physical health

✨ For many young people, talking about feelings and getting support early can make all the difference in building confidence, resilience, and connection.

💬 Did you know that around 1 in every 5 children and young people in the UK is estimated to have a probable mental health difficulty, such as anxiety or depression? That’s consistent with recent national evidence showing an increase over the last two decades. 
🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 In North Wales alone, estimates suggest that nearly 28,600 children and young people aged 8–25 years have a probable mental health disorder — highlighting just how many young lives this affects locally. 

📈 And it’s not just statistics — more than half of counselling support provided to young people across Wales is for mental and emotional health needs, with anxiety, stress and low mood among the top concerns. 

🧠 This week (and every week), let’s:

• encourage open conversations about how we feel
• listen without judgement
• share resources and support with the young people in our lives

🌱✨ Because when children feel supported and understood, they’re much more likely to thrive

🦋 Hello February 🦋🧘🏼‍♀️ New month, fresh energy, softer light, steadier steps. Here are some affirmations and gentle wor...
03/02/2026

🦋 Hello February 🦋

🧘🏼‍♀️ New month, fresh energy, softer light, steadier steps. Here are some affirmations and gentle words of wisdom to carry you through:

~ I move at my own pace, and that pace is enough.
~ I allow warmth, love, and clarity to find me—even on cold days.
~ I am growing, even when it feels quiet.
~ I choose progress over perfection.
~ My heart is open, and my boundaries are strong.
~ I trust the timing of my life.

✨ So remember, move gently, love boldly, and trust the quiet magic in becoming.

16/01/2026

Talking about su***de can be difficult.

However, learning how to talk about it in a safe and hopeful way has the power of potentially saving lives and avoiding reinforcing stigma that can prevent people from seeking the support they need.

Refrain from using the term ‘committed’. 'Commit' implies su***de is a sin or crime, reinforcing the stigma that it’s a selfish act and personal choice. Su***de has not been a crime in England since 1961.

Instead, let's use phrases such as 'died by su***de' or 'experienced suicidal thoughts'.
Let's keep talking about su***de safely and sensitively, and keep saving young lives. 💜

🛡️ Why Trauma Is Treated Differently Than Mental HealthMental health care often asks:👉 “What are you feeling or thinking...
15/01/2026

🛡️ Why Trauma Is Treated Differently Than Mental Health

Mental health care often asks:

👉 “What are you feeling or thinking right now?” 💭

Trauma-informed care asks:

👉 “What happened to you — and how did your body learn to survive?” 🕰️



🔁 Trauma Is About Survival

Trauma isn’t a disorder — it’s a protective response.

The nervous system learned:
• Stay alert
• Stay guarded
• Stay ready

These responses made sense then, even if they feel disruptive now.



🧩 Mental Health Is About Management

Mental health focuses on:
• Emotions
• Thoughts
• Behaviors
• Coping skills

The goal is often to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning.



🧘 Trauma Lives in the Body

Trauma reactions can happen without conscious thought:
• Sudden fear
• Shutdown
• Hypervigilance
• Emotional numbness

That’s why trauma healing focuses on:
• Safety
• Regulation
• The body — not just the mind



📍Why This Matters

You can’t “think your way out” of trauma.

Trauma needs:
• Time
• Safety
• Gentleness
• Nervous system support

Not pressure.
Not blame.



✨ Final Reminder

Trauma responses are not weakness —
they’re proof your system tried to protect you 🤍



🌿 Trauma isn’t treated differently because it’s worse —
it’s treated differently because it lives differently.

05/01/2026

📚 SUPERVISEES WANTED

Hi Everyone! I’m currently seeking supervisees as part of a supervision course running from January to June this year. As a requirement of the course, I’m offering supervision free of charge for the duration of my training.

I have six years’ experience working within sexual violence services, alongside previous roles in substance misuse and mental health settings. My specialism is trauma-informed work, shaped strongly by this background. My practice is integrative, with a person-centred foundation underpinning all of my work, and I draw on EMDR, CBT, Rewind, somatic-based approaches, and creative ways of working to meet the individual needs of each client and practitioner.

This supervision would be offered in addition to your existing supervisory arrangements, and is not intended to replace your current supervisor. I aim to provide a supportive, reflective, and collaborative supervisory space, with openness to creative exploration, particularly for those working with trauma.

If you’re interested in receiving free additional supervision between January and June while supporting my course requirement, I’d be very happy to hear from you. I can offer both online or face-to-face supervision in the Prestatyn area.

Thank you!

✨January ~ Begin Where You Are ✨You don’t have to have it all figured out in January. This month isn’t a deadline for cl...
03/01/2026

✨January ~ Begin Where You Are ✨

You don’t have to have it all figured out in January. This month isn’t a deadline for clarity, reinvention or neatly mapped plans — it’s simply a beginning, and beginnings are allowed to be quiet, uncertain and a little untidy.

Growth doesn’t demand immediate answers; it asks for patience, honesty and the courage to take the next small step when it feels right. If there’s one priority worth holding on to right now, it isn’t to optimise or prove anything, but simply to be — to rest, to notice, to breathe and to let yourself exist exactly as you are.

Move at a pace that honours your energy, speak to yourself with kindness, and remember that tending to your wellbeing is not falling behind — it’s laying the groundwork for whatever comes next.

🌟 1st December: A New Month, A New Beginning 🌟🎅🏼 As we step into December, we’re reminded that endings and beginnings of...
01/12/2025

🌟 1st December: A New Month, A New Beginning 🌟

🎅🏼 As we step into December, we’re reminded that endings and beginnings often sit side-by-side. For many, this time of year can bring warmth, excitement, and reflection — but it can also stir feelings of overwhelm, loneliness, or pressure.

✨ Remember:
You are allowed to pause.
You are allowed to feel.
You are allowed to begin again.

🎄 December doesn’t need to be perfect; it just needs to be gentle. Take a moment today to breathe, check in with yourself, and acknowledge how far you’ve come this year — even if it doesn’t feel like much. Progress is still progress.

💬 If this month feels heavy or complex, you’re not alone. Support is available, and reaching out is a sign of strength, not weakness.

🤶🏼 Here’s to a December filled with compassion, clarity, and moments of peace. You deserve all of it.

✨From the First Step to Feeling Seen: A Client’s Reflections✨Thinking about starting counselling? At Waves of Wisdom, ma...
21/11/2025

✨From the First Step to Feeling Seen: A Client’s Reflections✨

Thinking about starting counselling? At Waves of Wisdom, many people come to their first session feeling unsure, nervous, or wondering if they’re “doing it right.” What they often discover is that counselling isn’t about having everything figured out—it’s about having a safe, supportive space to explore, heal, and grow at your own pace.

To help inspire others, a client has kindly allowed me to share their experience of counselling, in hope this will support those who may be unsure of where to begin, and to show that therapy really can make a difference.

Remember, your story matters and it’s okay that you may not have all the answers in the beginning. If you would like to discover more about therapy with Waves of Wisdom, please don’t hesitate to contact me with any queries or interest to start your therapy journey in the near future.

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