30/05/2022
Are You Your Own Worst Critic?
Do you always feel like everyone else does a better job than you or knows more than you?
Do you sometimes feel that you don’t deserve your success or that your achievements are flukes that can be put down to just good luck?
Do you feel that it’s only a matter of time until you are ‘found out’?
You are not alone and it is very common - It's called
IMPOSTER SYNDROME.
I suffered from this for most of my life.
My parents said I was shy because as a child I would always
😟Hide In The Background
😞Never Put My Hand Up In Class To Answer Questions - even if I
knew the answer
😞I Always Felt Everyone Else Was Better Than Me
😞I Didn't Mix With The Popular Kids Incase They Laughed At Me
😞I would Never Ask For Help As I Didn't Feel Worthy
I am sure you get the picture.
As you grow up you learn to adapt but it holds you back from being everything you could be.
The subconcious mind is so powerful and it is programmed to do whatever it has to do to protect you- but it only sees things in black and white.
Something in your past, and it can be as simple as someone saying you are stupid, useless, an idiot, has triggered your subconcious mind to protect you from looking stupid, useless, and an idiot ......... The little voice inside is saying "don't put your hand up because you will be wrong and you will look stupid" "don't apply for that job as there will be hundreds of people applying who are better than you and you will look stupid and be disappointed"
So ....... Fast forward to a few years ago and I trained in hypnotherapy. I sat in a class of 15 all of whom I knew would be great and succesful therapists but I wouldn't , I would just be there to see what it was all about and then fail - it could never work for me!
That course changed my life! How could it not?
Hypnosis is a completely natural state, so it can't not work, you just have to let it work and find a skilled therapist who can help you get past the gatekeepers that guard your subconcious.
I am not going to tell you that I am a completely changed, super confident person but I am doing a job I love and doing it well!
I am confident in my ability to help people because I know this works.
BUT I can only help if you let me, if you want me to.
I am just the facilitator, change has to come from you, you have to be open to it and ready. There isn't a magic wand and you have to do the work.
Change is scary, you have spent so long in your "uncomfortable zone" even the thought of change can start off the little voice telling you this isn't going to work for you - don't be silly you can't change! BUT
🌼You Can Change!
🌼You Can Improve Your Life! You Can Change Your Life!
🌼It Is Never Too Late and
I offer Free No Obligation consultations so what have you got to lose?
I look forward to helping you break free and live the life you want to live
book your free consultation here
https://bookings.gettimely.com/inbalancetherapies/bb/bookan