Holden Therapy

Holden Therapy Integrative therapist, fully qualified and registered member of the BACP.

Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 to Past and Present clients! 🎁 ​As we approach the end of 2025, I wanted to take a moment to send yo...
22/12/2025

Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 to Past and Present clients! 🎁

​As we approach the end of 2025, I wanted to take a moment to send you all, my warmest holiday wishes.

​The holiday season can often feel like a whirlwind, and it is easy to get lost in the expectations of others. My hope for you this Christmas is that you hold onto yourself! ❤️

Remember the boundaries you’ve built, the values you’ve clarified, and the person you are becoming. ✨️

​Wishing you a peaceful and grounded end to the year.

07/12/2025
Therapy can provide a safe space to work together to shift shame into guilt, because that shift is the key to unlocking ...
07/12/2025

Therapy can provide a safe space to work together to shift shame into guilt, because that shift is the key to unlocking true growth.

Shame makes you feel intrinsically broken "I am a bad person" causing you to hide, withdraw, and remain paralysed in negativity.

But guilt offers a way out; it wisely says, "I did something that doesn't align with my values."

By focusing on the action rather than the self, we can move from painful self-condemnation to productive change.

Embrace the guilt—it is simply your conscience telling you where to repair, learn, and grow stronger. Theapy can be your moment to reframe such negative emotions and transform them in to motivation for self awareness and growth.

Neuroscientists have uncovered one of the most surprising truths about the human brain. It does not care whether your th...
03/12/2025

Neuroscientists have uncovered one of the most surprising truths about the human brain. It does not care whether your thoughts are true or false. It simply believes whatever you repeat often enough. This discovery has changed how experts understand mindset, behavior and emotional patterns. When a thought is repeated, neural pathways strengthen, signals fire faster and the brain begins to accept that thought as its default reality. Over time, repetition becomes identity.

This explains why negative self talk feels so heavy. Thoughts like “I am not good enough” or “I always fail” may not be factual, yet the brain interprets them as instructions. The more they are repeated, the deeper they carve into the mind, shaping mood, confidence and decision making. On the other hand, repeated positive thoughts begin to build new circuits that support healthier beliefs, stronger resilience and a more grounded sense of self.

Neuroscientists call this neuroplasticity. The brain adapts to what it hears most, even when it comes from your own inner voice. This means the words you speak to yourself are not harmless. They are literally sculpting the architecture of your mind. Changing your life often starts with changing the thoughts you choose to repeat each day.

Protect your mind. Speak with intention. Feed your brain what you want it to believe.

🌟 Unlock Your Best SelfTired of feeling stuck in the same old patterns? Therapy is your personal upgrade—a powerful, con...
29/11/2025

🌟 Unlock Your Best Self
Tired of feeling stuck in the same old patterns? Therapy is your personal upgrade—a powerful, confidential space to ditch the baggage, quiet the noise, and gain the clarity you've been craving.

It's not about being "broken"; it's about investing in your mental fitness to navigate life with confidence, master your emotions, and finally start living a life that feels authentic and energised.

With the festive season approaching, please note that the following dates only are available between 17th December and 3...
19/11/2025

With the festive season approaching, please note that the following dates only are available between 17th December and 3rd January 2026.
Monday 22nd December
Tuesday 23rd December
Further appointments available from 3rd January

Integral Eye Movement Therapy (IEMT) promotes neuroplasticity and trauma healing by using precise eye movements to rapid...
28/10/2025

Integral Eye Movement Therapy (IEMT) promotes neuroplasticity and trauma healing by using precise eye movements to rapidly reduce the emotional intensity of distressing memories.

This technique is thought to work by interfering with the brain's emotional coding during memory reconsolidation, allowing the memory to be stored again with less emotional charge. By accessing and changing these deeply held emotional and identity imprints, IEMT can help to reorganise neural pathways, essentially creating new connections that dampen the overactivity of the fear center (amygdala) and improve overall emotional regulation. This swift reprocessing of memories and shift in self-perception allows the brain to heal from trauma and fosters lasting neuroplastic change.

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