Nicola Martin-Davis

Nicola Martin-Davis Bereavement Counsellor/Grief Coach. Meditation Teacher. Sound/Art Therapy Advocate. I use an Holistic approach in my work. Funeral Officiant for nearly 2 decades.

Former district/end of life nurse. Former Social Science lecturer.
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09/04/2026

Entering my 20th year supporting the bereaved and my 47th in public service, I have helped tens of thousands of people in one way or another. Whether journeying through health worries, illness both physical and emotional, addiction and isolation or other painful, challenging and desperate times. As a general nurse, a district nurse and an end of life nurse. As a social science lecturer and specialist teacher. As a confidence skills tutor. As a bereavement counsellor. In behavioural management.

As a pastoral minister and funeral officiant.

And so why (or how) would I do anything else? X

I took these photographs in 1977. The quality of them isn’t great but I’m so pleased I have them. We had gone for a picn...
08/04/2026

I took these photographs in 1977. The quality of them isn’t great but I’m so pleased I have them.

We had gone for a picnic in between Esfahan and where we lived in the desert. My mother loved to explore as much as my father hated it. šŸ˜…

On the way we met a nomadic camel breeder and his son and they posed for my photo but didn’t want to face the camera. We gave them a 1000 rial note (about Ā£7) and they were absolutely thrilled.

My prayers tonight are for the most stunning, ancient country heaving in history that I’ve ever lived in - and for the g...
07/04/2026

My prayers tonight are for the most stunning, ancient country heaving in history that I’ve ever lived in - and for the gentle, educated and cultured people of Iran. My heart is breaking for them.

I have seen most things in these photos including Persepolis (Darius the Great) and the Esfahan desert where we lived for a while in one of the Swedish prefabricated homes on a base.

This is truly a beautiful country.

05/04/2026

I hope that for everyone, today offers a small sense of joy or peace or both. It’s a great day for new beginnings.

I wrote two songs yesterday. One was about my home boy, Jesus. The other was about respecting everyone regardless of their their faith systems. This song is a Celebration of faith and Christianity is not the only faith celebrating at this time of year.

Different Flames. Same Sky. Ā©ļøNMD26

Happy Easter Day. šŸ„³šŸ•ŠļøIt’s not the greatest world at the moment as well we all know but we still have the ability to hope...
05/04/2026

Happy Easter Day. šŸ„³šŸ•Šļø

It’s not the greatest world at the moment as well we all know but we still have the ability to hope and pray for sanity to creep back into everyday lives.

Easter is representative of new beginnings. Of rebirth. If you view the Resurrection of Christ as nothing more than an amazing metaphor for the transformative potential within each of us, that’s a good first base.

I was interviewed by a BBC journalist some years ago highlighting my work. It was for a special news report he compiled having shadowed me for 2 weeks.

When he was close to finishing, he told me how much he admired the time and energy I gave to help people get through dark times. He then said he couldn’t understand, and I quote, ā€œ … how such an intelligent woman can believe in the concept of an invisible God.ā€
(His exact words).

I told him that the two things aren’t in any way separated as what he found incredulous fuels the very thing he called admirable.

I’m grateful to have faith. Every Easter I’m especially grateful for the generations of my family installing so many different faith beliefs into my DNA.

Our world is full of rage, fakery, dark forces and war - more so than ever it seems. There is only one profound anchor for hope and emotional peace; and that’s faith.

Research on human experience suggests that faith in a higher power serves as a beacon of light guiding us through despair. People with faith are happier and far more resilient.

No one needs to go to a special building in order to speak to God. God is everywhere. I am trying so hard to separate the fixed belief that you need to be ā€˜religious’ to have faith.

Organised Religion used as a weapon can cause the human suffering every single faith system claims to find abhorrent.

Attending a form of collective worship is important for some but a hideous thought for others. To that group not keen, let me say this.

Going to a religious place of worship does not define what a good person needs to be. Having faith that a higher being is capable of helping you through turmoil and hopelessness (and guiding the world out of it) is a construct all good human beings desperately need and it isn’t found in a building. It’s found everywhere.

Having studied and taught psychology, I’m massive on research and studies indicate that faith/spirituality reduces feelings of anxiety and mild depression.
Faith gives people a sense of connection to something larger than them.

At this time the ā€˜god’ motivating the actions of many people clearly isn’t a benevolent one despite them pretending otherwise. Calling out wrongdoings is an important part of being a good person btw. Look how messed up everything gets when the wrong people are in positions of authority and control. From the top, down.

It is a shallow, cold and emotionless existence without a genuine, deep faith living inside the hearts of people. Faith offers community. It’s a stress buffer. It significantly increases mental well health because it offers hope within adversity and comfort for pain.

God isn’t invisible. God lives in every beautiful part of our world including every selfless deed. šŸ™šŸ„³

04/04/2026

I wrote the words to this at 5am and spent nearly 6 hours on and off trying to get the music how I felt Jesus Himself might like if He was here today. I am sure He would love a bit of rock/pop with an essence of the Middle East.

I should have been doing the washing and clearing up the garden. Oh well.

If you mark Easter for its reason, you may like this. It’s not especially traditional or conventional
but then neither am I. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

Original audio and lyrics
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03/04/2026

Well, isn’t this a beautiful thing to read on Good Friday?

Thank you so much Yvonne Adams ### Coupled with both of my sisters telling someone how I was always a placid child who never gave our mother a minute’s trouble, (they’re not usually quite so complimentary), I’ve had a lovely Good Friday. I often view Easter as the start of a new chapter - as many view New Year’s Eve to be. Here’s hoping and praying we all know a little more peace very soon. šŸ•ŠļøšŸŖ·

I think we were together in 2024! 😘😘😘

03/04/2026

Scholars and non-Christian sources widely agree on the existence of Jesus as an historical figure. The first author to mention Jesus is historian, Flavius Josephus, who wrote a history of Judaism. AD93.

Historians tell you He existed.
Faith tells you He is the Son of God.
Wherever you sit, it’s still Good Friday, so I wish you a peaceful one! šŸ•Šļø

02/04/2026

It is essential to avoid toxic people so that we can protect our spiritual, emotional and physical well-being. Be authentic. Be kind. Be you. Be brave. Be beautiful. Be yourself.

ā€œDo not be misled: Bad company corrupts good characterā€.
1 Corinthians 15:33

Good morning! I was booked three times yesterday. One service is to be very light Christian and the other two are comple...
02/04/2026

Good morning!

I was booked three times yesterday. One service is to be very light Christian and the other two are completely non religious.

I am booked because of my character, professional background and industry experience; not because of my faith.

I am frequently requested by families who don’t usually have to file a petition to get me. šŸ˜‚

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It was the best to see everyone at the Grief CafĆ©. I’ve missed you all!(These groups are made possible by the kindness o...
01/04/2026

It was the best to see everyone at the Grief CafĆ©. I’ve missed you all!

(These groups are made possible by the kindness of Harwood Park)

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