06/05/2026
Are you a woman who holds it all?
If you think I'm talking to you then I probably am.
Whether you have your own business as I do
Whether you work for somebody else
Or you are looking after your young.
Whether you are a mum to humans or four-legged friends, carer to family members, friends or elderly neighbours 💖
What I can almost guarantee as a woman you are
everything to everyone, all of the time.
Over giving
Overthinking
Overstretched
Overwhelmed.
And in most cases wearing it with pride.
A badge of honour.
A medal.
Quietly building from deep within exhaustion, anxiety and stress.
But you just keep on.....
Because you feel that there is no other way,
All the women before you did this and so surely you must carry on. 🥇
Do you ever stop and think about this?
Do you honestly realise the value you bring just being you?
Do you know how loved you truly are?
It's not a trick question.....
Most of us do not stop to think about this
But when we do, like the women I get to work with, they say no. 🥺
I just want to remind you how important you are
I want you just to notice the difference you make being YOU
This doesn't have to be something big. Small things matter too
And you are most certainly loved 💞
Last night I spent the evening holding space for other powerful and beautiful women... 🙏🏻
Today, I'm making vanilla muffins because my youngest is unwell and needs encouragement to eat.
Why do I share this?
Because we're multiple things to multiple people over multiple times....
Who are you for you? 🌹
I invite you to really think about this....
With love, compassion, understanding, patience, and kindness that you show everybody else.
If your answer doesn't make you feel happy or joyful, trust and know that you have the answer within about what it is that you need to change.
You know where I am if you need some clarity.
✨ You get to choose