25/01/2026
I think we can all resonate with this right now... hold tight spring is round the corner and we will soon be reminded why we do it all. Winter will be a distant memory once again....
At some point every winter, every horse owner ends up in the same place. Standing in the mud , wheelbarrow stuck & hay in all the crevices. Staring at their horse. Maybe even leaking from their eyes.
Realising they are supposed to be the responsible CEO of a financially ruinous, emotionally demanding, hay-powered charity.
January makes it so much worse.
You start doing the mental maths.
Feed and hay prices that make your eye twitch.
Livery fees , Farrier , Worming. Rugs that cost the same as a weekend away you absolutely are not taking.
And then January really leaaaaaans in on day 23983829485th.
Payday still a week away.
The Halifax app sliding into your phone like,
“Hey you 👋 just a heads up… you’ve got bills coming out and this will mean you have minus money.”
Thank you, Halifax. Love these updates. Truly.
And the horse?
Calm.
Emotionally unbothered.
Positively RADIANT even!
Living their best forage-based life while you spiral gently over spreadsheets and bank balances.
Here’s the bit no one says because it’s a bit too raw.
Your horse is thriving right now because you are quietly breaking yourself in tiny, responsible ways.
They don’t know you’re budgeting.
They don’t know you’ve sold tack, cancelled plans, eaten beans on toast, or postponed literally everything for yourself so the farrier, feed and hay deliveries are never missed.
All they experience is:
✨ warmth
✨ routine
✨ full belly
✨ predictable humans
They never see the emotional or financial gymnastics behind it.
People joke about being “horse poor”, but underneath the humour is a level of devotion most people can’t imagine.
You are holding another being’s entire world together while the country quietly falls apart round the edges financially.
So if January is F%$&ing rinsing you, your bank app is being passive aggressive, and you’re one invoice away from crying in the feed room, it isn’t because you’re failing.
It’s because you’re doing everything right in a system that makes this absurdly hard right now.
Your horse is safe because of you.
That’s the quiet, unglamorous truth of every season with horses.