29/09/2025
🌱 Stage-Based Anxiety in Children: A Parent’s Guide
Anxiety is a normal part of growing up. Children’s worries change as they develop, and most fears are part of healthy growth. Knowing what to expect and how to support your child can make all the difference. 💛
👶 Infancy (0–2 years)�It’s common for babies and toddlers to cry when separated from parents or caregivers. This “separation anxiety” shows their growing awareness of the world.�✨ How to help: Create predictable routines, use short goodbyes, and reassure them with a calm return.
👧 Early Childhood (3–6 years)�At this stage, children may fear the dark, monsters, loud noises, strangers, or non-family members. Their imagination is vivid, and they’re learning what feels safe or unfamiliar.�✨ How to help: Acknowledge their fears instead of dismissing them (“I know the dark feels scary”), use night lights, practice “pretend bravery” games, and gently model safe interactions with new people.
🧒 Middle Childhood (7–11 years)�Worries become more realistic about school, friendships, media-based fears or safety. Kids start comparing themselves with others and may feel pressure to “fit in.” They also start to hear about world news and consider their safety within that wider space. �✨ How to help: Encourage open conversations, break big worries into smaller steps, praise effort (not just results), and practice calming skills like deep breathing.
🧑 Adolescence (12+ years)�Teens may feel anxious about friendships, body image, school performance, and global issues. Their ability to think about the future can fuel worries.�✨ How to help: Listen without judgment, validate their feelings, encourage problem-solving, and support healthy routines (sleep, exercise, downtime).
🌟 When to Seek Extra Support�If fears are intense, long-lasting, or stop your child from enjoying daily life (like refusing school, withdrawing from friends, or frequent tummy aches), it may be time to seek professional help.
At Safe Base Psychology we can support you to support your child or work directly with your child.